because i am asking

Link/Loz | he/it/they | founder of catboy costis | gay | 25 | icon by artfrostedleaf!!

[swordbreakerz]

i've finally for the first time in my life completed a meet the artist. about time! hopefully i'll start drawing more again and remembering bsky exists when im not drudging through my homework, lol

[kosmogrl]

[giragirameganedan]

[pure]

being a feminist, a real feminist, means you have to undertake the most difficult, grueling, and embarrassing act of them all. you have to advocate on behalf of heterosexual women as a group. this is worse than being a communist and having to field 100 million dead venezualean iphone accusations any time you speak. this has been the true test of my morality but i refuse to falter. This is the challenge of all time

[isaidimafuckingstar]

i wonder if im known for anything as a mutual

[transwolvie]

You make that flat chested character flat chested again you fucking coward. If you can only get it up if you give her an F cup you don't deserve her

[godpup]

"it's not a thought crime if you post it because then it's not a thought it's something you said" ouhhhhh my God Can we all just throw ourselves into a river. they're inventing Posting Crimes. you did a Post Crime when you made that silly little kink post. it's only a thought crime if you only think it AND you have to hate yourself for thinking it you have to flagellate every day and be miserable and you have to bathe in boiling hot holy water to absolve yourself and cleanse yourself. you fucking Post Criminal. posting your Thoughts that are Criminal (not a real definable category that matters btw)

[godpup]

can we please talk about how the most miserable people on this website have such a backwards-ass idea of how to deal with intrusive thoughts. like, "it's only an intrusive thought if you perform exactly how disgusted you are by it!!" this is The opposite of what they tell you to do like actually. if you spend all your time wringing your hands over every single bad thought you have that only reinforces it!!!! you need to let it go. it's a thought it cannot hurt you and it isn't what makes you. and you don't need to performatively retch over how despicable the thought may be to an imagined jury. It Doesn't Matter. It's A Thought. Not An Action. And No Simply Saying It Aloud Or Writing It In A Journal Or Posting It To Your Blog Or Writing A Story Doesn't Make It Any More Real Either. Can We Please Stop Being The OCD Reinforcement Website

[gummybearattacktheworldofdespair]

[sapphic-gengar]

oh thank goodness

[lettuccine]

everyone go watch goodbye lara

[raincraver]

Goodbye, Lara - Sayonara, Lara (2026) || 1x01 - Lara

[comicaurora]

D&D has become so much more fun since it clicked for me that I'm not the character, I'm the writer in charge of the character

[comicaurora]

If you're the character, bad rolls and bad calls reflect badly on you. You want to Win because that means you're doing D&D right, and if things go wrong, it's because you're doing it wrong.

If you're the writer, your number one job is to do things to your character that the character does not like because that gives them the chance to be interesting.

[meow-moment]

so many people, despite speaking as if they believe the contrary, do still hold onto the belief that men are inherently better at women, and that trans people do have inherent qualities imparted by their birth sex, and this explains so much of the divide between how trans men are treated vs how trans women are treated

[meow-moment]

trans men are seen as more acceptable in mens sports than trans women are in womens sports because society sees a trans man as a Woman Who Surpassed Her Gender Enough To Earn A Spot Playing Real Sports while a trans woman is seen as a Man Who Is Trying To Gain An Unfair Advantage Playing Pretend Sports. trans men are accepted at events like michfest while trans women are banned because to them a trans man is not a type of man but a type of lesbian, and a trans woman is not a type of woman but a type of gay man. trans women arguing that trans men have misogynistic privilege over them means theyre the real misogynists, because how dare that Man berate that Woman over the oppression She I Mean He faces! its all so disgusting and once you notice it you cant unnotice it

[meow-moment]

please do notice it though. dont live in ignorance just because it isnt convenient, or because it doesnt affect you personally. point it out when you see it. be vocal about it. mean it when you say trans men are men and trans women are women, dont just say it as a slogan. do what you can to make things right. please.

[ndnbutch]

but if I were to say that I don’t think vampires inherently and universally represent queerness and that if that’s the only way you engage with any story containing a vampire then a lot of very important messages are going to go straight over your head? i would be killed to death.

[shelterwoodpod]

ESPECIALLY an issue when vampires very explicitly represent fear of outsider immigrant non-white invaders! Dracula can absolutely be read with a queer lens but we cannot let our desire for ~spooky gay stuff~ blind us to the very real xenophobia, antisemitism, and orientalism present in a LOT of the foundational media in vampire history! nor the racism present in modern vampire stories!!!

[swordbreakerz]

shoutout to my brain that fumbled the word metoprolol like 5 times when trying to tell the tech at urgent care about my med change but was able to supply succinate as the variant with no trouble. What's up with that

[brofurin]

witch hat atelier | tongari boushi no atelier by kamome shirahama • chapter 36

[redstonedust]

magical girl shows are good because their attacks will be something like "super love sunshine friendship beam" but make no mistake, super love sunshine friendship beam WILL end you. super love sunshine friendship beam will leave a crater in the ground where you once stood. you cannot understimate the power of super love sunshine friendship beam.

[tempered-grace]

very funny to me that calories is legit just a measure of energy. you can convert it to joules. (4186 joules in one kcal). really drives home the absurdity of diet culture.

[dollgirllandsknecht]

She has over 4 megajoules of energy.

and this little lady is only 4 Calories