System/Alter help!

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Could you help us name a newly formed alter? He’s masculine, is associated with the color brown, does a lot of work for us, and listens to songs like Glitter and Gold or omw by ashe

hmm. maybe like ethan, arthur, john, james, samuel, noah, or adam?

im not the best at naming stuff but i hope this helps you man good luck o7.

[syssupport]

I'm wondering, is this blog still active? -🥞

yes !! we dont get a ton of asks but we are here !

[syssupport]

hi mini update bc i forgot about this a little: we are still here and do check tumblr from time to time so never fear sending asks lol unforch we cannot take any edit requests until further notice bc our ipad shit and died

[syssupport]

i meant dealing with experiencing types of racism not at all similar to what they know how to deal with, because equating things that do not exist to anyone else to actual problems feels gross and wrong

I think i understand you better but i dont know if i can really assist you anon, even as a poc i feel uncomfortable trying to advise someone over an askbox on tumblr with such a serious issue. i do suggest doing some personal research on what may be occurring for you anon and how to help your mental health and stress at the same time. sorry i cant help more, have a good rest of your day.

[syssupport]

how do alters from worlds with fantasy racism deal with irl racism that didn't exist in their source? asking for a friend and that friend is rejection sensitive dysphoria

hi ‘non, alters don’t/cannot experience any form of racism the body doesn’t experience. not sure what the last half of your ask means though, sorry.

if you have anymore questions feel free to drop them in the ask box.

[syssupport]

Hihihi Misa fictive here I just wanted to ask is normal to miss Sourcemates? -Misa <3

meant to answer this wayy earlier but yea totally normal ‘non.

[syssupport]

Hiii, is it normal for new alters to have no amnesia while forming? Or for a system's new alters to have amnesia only sometimes? Can't find any info on this :(

hey anon we arent really?? sure what yer asking like do you mean like remembering why they formed? or something?

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can i get some positivity for a classic heavy from the tf2 comics fictive? i’ve been feeling really shitty and like i’m a bad person for my source, so i’d like some validation i’m not a bad guy

hey heavy , we have plenty of headmates who get what youre feeling right now so we get it, you arent a bad person and you arent source you either. you are not at fault for your source or for what source you did at all, youre a good person whos growing and learning and doing your best ! you arent alone heavy and i hope this helped even a little .

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[syssupport]

Hey! You guys have probably got this question before but I'mma ask anyways cause I've been pretty stressed

Do you have any tips or advice for figuring out if an alter is real or multiple alters all just blending together?

We have a lot of littles and I (the host) can't communicate very well with any of them. It's mainly cause they're so hyper and get bored trying to achieve clearer communication lol. I can communicate with two of my girlies though and one I only recently realized is actually an alter and not just me being silly or childish. Because of that I've started to doubt if all the other littles are real or not just fragments since they don't come towards the front very often and when they do it's just kinda a big mushy mess of everyone :/

im sorry anon i dont really have any. set advice for this but i did talk to a few other systems and they all pretty much agreed that it is best to wait and not push things too much.

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Is it..it’s normal for an alter to be like the opposite of a sexual alter? Instead of coming out to comfort the host or anyone during the sexual encounter they just come out whenever there is a sexual thing going on cause it just upsets them? We have an alter who always fronts when me and my partner are doing sexual stuff and he cries that’s all he does. I don’t know what to do.

that sounds a lot more like a traumaholder vs anything to me but i could be wrong. if anyone has anything to add on feel free.

[syssupport]

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Question from a headmate- is it bad to be "pining" for someone if I'm still not over the loss of someone from my source? According to others, it seems that the feeling is mutual-

nah not at all your 100% valid anon shoot your shot and all that shit dude sometimes this shit helps you move on yk? but good luck overall.

[syssupport]

Also keep in mind you cannot have fictives of other races. In headspace they may look different but do not call them any race other than the body's. - Axolotl (systemcomforts)

yeah this too ^^

[syssupport]

hey, my whole system and all our kins are different races than the body, mainly japanese, but that's a problem. we don't want to seem cruel when making the body look like us through surgery, what should we do? not looking like our sources and faceclaims causes severe stress, dyphroia, and more, even makes us relapse. should we just live with the pain? or look how we want to look

hey i get it im a fictive of a character whos jpn its weird not looking like me anymore , however i would strongly Strongly Not recommend using surgery to look more jpn bc its highly offensive and overall kinda shitty to do . My best recommendation is a) u can always change ur pfps or proxies to pictures of U in source or art uve made of urself or ur kins to try and feel a lil more comfortable or b) to try and get used to not being jpn anymore by maybe practicing seeing ur body in the mirror or headspace or wv or just kinda getting used to it over time . its something ive personally just gotten used to over time w/ an influx of fronting often but it occasionally does get me by surprise so just take ur time w it .

[syssupport]

here u go anon