we all understand that by asking about shane’s relationships with women that ilya wasn’t “telling him to go get a girlfriend” right. like we all understand that he grew up in a country where what they’re doing is illegal and his dad and brother are cops. right. we all understand that that entire conversation was not ilya trying to “make shane jealous” but was a very strategic and careful way of saying “i’m bisexual. are you, too? because i really like you/what we’re doing” without having to say the word because that’s dangerous. and that his jealousy around rose is not because she’s a woman but more so because ilya understands shane, and therefore knows he doesn’t do casual relationships, and he is sick from the nauseating idea that because shane is in a very public relationship that must mean he is in love with someone else. who is not ilya. ilya, who just basically spilled his feelings all over the place by planning a date, and exposing vulnerabilities, and sighing “fuck, shane” only for shane to immediately panic and end things and leave. that would certainly lend itself to some hurt and confusion. like we all get that… right?