About dislike/hate post(s)
Hello guys I just want to say some things here which been my concern recently. I hope this could be applied to any fandom, wherever you are.
So for example you have least fav or you dislike or even hate a member or a group or an idol or an actor/actress or pairing or whoever it is, esp for public figure. First, I need to say that of course it's your right to dislike or hate them. I mean, yea, I'm not the purest person in the world as well. There gonna be some moment where you gonna think some people is not as attractive as what others said, or you find that one is not attractive or you think that s/he's ugly or s/he's not pretty not handsome, right? Yea of course it's your choice for not liking them, it's completely ok and that's normal.
The thing is, it’s definitely not necessary to make everyone know that you hate/dislike that person. Like why would you even doing that? What's the point of saying "I'm sorry but I don't really like this group A because they're ugly and have no talent and blah blah blah."
Saying something like that gonna be just made others went mad and angry.
There always gonna be some people who would disagree with us, especially when you are talking about negativity (disliking thing, hating thing) that would just made other feels uneasy.
If you don't like that one(s), then you don't need to wrote something like that. I find lots of people posting something like that on twitter. Sometimes they're even being bold like "Here are list of idol group that I hate" then this person make a really long thread about why s/he don't like them. I mean, wow, if you don't like them then why did you wasted your time for them? How did you even find those facts even?
For example, me, when I don't like any particular person, then I won't talking about that one much. Why? Simply because I don't care them. I don't like that person so why would I even care? There's no need to show or talking about thing that I don't like right? I'd rather to talking about things that I like, share the positivess, share the excited moments to others.
Listen, making those kind of hate/dislike post will just hurt others and that's not good.
So, what to do when you don't like any idol/actor/actress/singer/group/pairings/whatever it is?
If you don't like it then don't even mention it. Just act like you don't know them, because afterall you don't like them, do you? There's no need to make any statement for others that you don't like them. If you don't like it then just leave, you have no bussiness there.
Then what to do if I see some people make dislike/hate post for purpose?
Just ignore them. You don't need to show or proof that s/he is wrong. You don't need to care with them. Just silently block and report the account if you want but don't say anything. Mostly people were making those kind of post only to seek attention, right? The more you reply that person, s/he probably just enjoying his/her moment for being like a famous person.
Well, that is all I wanted to say. I'm not a perfect person as well, you might sometimes find me complaining this or that on twitter. I cannot always being positive person as well but at least try your best to respect the other you can make everyone feel comfortable with you, ok :) Sorry for making this kind of post but I hope you guys can understand.