#-jh

[leafstem]

What should i wear in my minecraft skin?

[slutswarm]

I'm the anon that asked about your boundaries!! Also hi JH it's really nice to meet you I've been lurking for a while and I find it funny that you're the first one on the abbreviation list and you've never posted Anyway, I'm gonna claim the Dango Emoji :) -🍡

hiiiii ^_^ also lol yeah we decided to put the most recent intros at the top, i just made mine a bit ago! glad to hear you’ve been enjoying the horny shit lol

[slutswarm]

Actually want to suck your clit until you can't take it anymore and you're tugging at my hair and begging me to stop but you're not even pushing me away or saying the safe word looking so handsome propped up on some pillows as I blow you

and then you keep going and i cum in your mouth, gripping your hair even tighter? bet you’d look extra handsome too after i make a mess on you like that :)

[slutswarm]

please please please can we rub our tcocks together, please I just want to grind mine against yours

yeah of course, especially if you keep begging so pretty like that <3

[slutswarm]

logged in to see you gay fucks flirting with us and started unintentionally doing a queer little leg kick idk how to react but i’m grinning like a dummy gimme a hot fucking second ok

[anything-advice-blog]

To Kenz, thank you for the advice. I had ended it today, and I feel better. Although I feel bad about it, it's better to do than to let it drag on. He seemed to take it well. We agree to be friends. Thank you, I appreciate it. Helped a lot -JH

Hi again lovely,Thank you for sending this in. I love hearing that I've helped. It was for the best, I'm glad you feel much better :) and good for you two for remaining friends! Good luck, if you need anything else, I'm here!Love,Kenz

[anything-advice-blog]

I seem to feel numb, my relationship is going down, and I plan to end it. Am I a terrible person? He says I'm the best thing, but then tells me I make him feel like shit. I'm tired of crying, I can barely make myself happy anymore.. -JH

Hi lovely,You are not a terrible person at all. You deserve to be happy, and if this relationship doesn't make you happy anymore, I agree that it's time to reevaluate whether or not you should be in it. Sometimes you have to put yourself first, and your mental health and happiness is one of those cases. You do not deserve to be in a relationship that makes you unhappy. You also stated that he tells you that you make him feel bad. In that case, again you wouldn't be doing a terrible thing. He's stated that he's not satisfied in the relationship, and you aren't either. Why would you continue something that makes you both unhappy? Here are some tips:• Be sure of your decision. While some couples do get back together, this could be permanent and you have to be okay with that. • Never avoid breaking up with someone because you're going to hurt their feelings. Breakups aren't pleasant, but your partner doesn't deserve to be in a relationship where you are pretending. • Choose the right time. Don't begin the talk when they're dealing with a crisis, if you're in the middle of a fight, in front of other people, or over technology. You want things to go smoothly, and all these things can make it a little tougher than you wanted. • Be honest. Explain that it's not working. If you think some of your reasons may hurt them, I would leave them out and replace it with "I feel like there isn't chemistry between us anymore" or something to that effect. You don't want to blame him. But if your reasons are something like differing interests, it's okay to tell him that. • Reassure them that you still care. This can soften the blow. I hope this helps! Good luck. Love,Kenz

[mental-health-advice]

My best friend is an alcoholic. I really want to help her but I don't know how to. She wants to get better but when I try to bring it up, she shuts me down. Tag JH

Hi there lovely!

First of all, I want you to know what an amazing friend you are. Having support can make so much difference when you’re going through something, so even if you don’t feel like you’re doing a lot, knowing that you’re there for her will be helping your friend more than you realise.

It’s very important that you understand that there’s only so much you can do. At the end of the day, recovery is in the hands of the person recovering. Other people can become amazing sources of support and guidance, but your friend has to help herself as well. Additionally, recovery is a long and difficult process. There may be times when things get better and then worse again, and it won’t be a smooth process. I know you probably know this, but I just wanted to make sure that you keep a realistic mind-set when it comes to her recovery.

If your friend shuts down when you talk about it, maybe it would be easier for her talking about it online? You could message her saying something along the lines of “I know this is hard to talk about, so I thought it might be easier if we talk over the internet, because I want to support you through this”. This might make her more likely to open up and to let you help.

Even if she won’t talk to you, you could give her information as to where she can get professional support for her drinking. I definitely recommend reading this page here for some really useful self-help tips!

You could also direct her to a support group of some kind? She might find it easier opening up to people with experience in alcoholism. Support groups include:

Women For Sobriety

SMART Recovery

Alcoholics Anonymous

Secular Organisations for Sobriety

I hope this helped in some way lovely. You’re an amazing friend, and your friend will be able to make it through this. If they want to speak to someone anonymously, feel free to tell them about our blog, and we’ll do everything we can to support her.

I wish you and your friend all the best,

All the love,

Ellen x