i am saying this to baby phans:
you are young, you have developing critical thinking skills. you are in no place to speculate the morality of adults who have been in love longer than some of you have been alive. they are the only ones who have any say on their relationship, and what they think about each other. don't pick apart the things that dont make you smile. internet, or not. it can be hard, but, thats what a journal is for. as you are young, i reccomend having a private account (or just sideblog where you dont use tags for algorithm reasons) for your negative thoughts, or, to keep it in the drafts. tumblr is honestky one of the best journaling devices out there. i have been on the internet for as long as ive been an artist. listen to me. i am wise. i was groomed on discord by a jjba fan (so i know detest the media), accused of being 'problamtic' for my 'yaoi art style' when i was 17, my first social media was DEVIANT ART. i was the youngest of four, born in 2004, but i grew up around old media. how many of you watched archvies weird mysteries, sherlock holmes in the 22nd century, or phil og the future? phil of the future is awesome because it doesnt have sound effects. use the internet wisely. it took me years to master the art of the tumbrl post. years to get to the point where i think every post i say deserves to be archived for anyone to love, forever. if you are a teenager, that is not the case. you are a teenager. have a private life. the only people whos opinions of you matters are the people they love.
