#4d realm

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The 3D has to conform

Let me word it simply: Your. Manifestation. Has. No. Choice. But. To. Become. True.

When you manifest something, the 3D realm - what you can physically see and feel - has no choice but to conform to what you’re saying is true. Period. What you say and believe to be true is what’s true.

Think of the 3D realm as a simulation or a video game that you’re in. You control it. As the main character, what do you want this realm and these people (the non-player characters) to do? You’re deciding and controlling what’s going on. The Sims is a perfect example of this. You’re building the world and doing things that make the other characters conform to you. Other people are playing their own version of the game, manifesting their own different reality. The real world is surprisingly like that, believe it or not.

If you’re just sitting or standing there letting your mind stew, you’re subconsciously manifesting things you may not want. So, take notice and decide what you want because manifesting should be used to benefit you. It’s your reality. You decide what happens and it’ll conform to what you desire.

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You don’t have to take action

I don’t know why I’ve heard some content creators say you have to do things like cleaning your room if you want to be a more productive person or scheduling to go to the gym if you want to be healthier. No. Action isn’t required. Sounds crazy, I know. But let me tell you why action isn’t necessary.

Let’s say you want to lose weight. You can literally tell yourself, “I can eat anything I want and still stay skinny,” and it’ll work. When you decide that, it’ll happen. There’s no action you have to take to get into that mindset. Let’s say you want to date your SP. You can literally state, “SP asked me out and we’re now in a serious relationship,” and it’ll happen.

Action is never required in manifesting, just persistence in affirming. When you know and convince your brain that you have something, the universe does the rest of the work for you. And, technically, affirming is an action, but what I’m saying is you don’t have to do anything strenuous to get your reality to shift.

It’s actually encouraged not to do anything other than affirm because you’re just making it harder on yourself and trying to force things to work in a “logical” way that might not even lead to the end result you want. You shouldn’t be tampering with the 3D. All you have to do is focus on your 4D reality and what you assume is true.

Think of the restaurant analogy. This place you go to for dinner guarantees they’ll get your order right. All you’re doing is putting in the order for your food and it’ll come to you exactly how you envisioned it, exactly how it’s described on the menu. This is how manifesting works. All you’re doing is saying “I’m going to have [this]” and then you’re guaranteed to get it.

The only time action will happen is if it’s divine guidance. Divine guidance can happen in the bridge of events where you’re pushed into doing something that leads to you getting your manifestation in the 3D realm. For example, you’re manifesting $1,000 and you receive an email from your bank saying, “check your account. You’ve received a reward.” It prompted you to log into your bank account to find that $1,000. Or, another example is you’re manifesting your SP to propose to you. You get this random urge to call them, so you do. They say, “wow, perfect timing! I was just about to ask you if you wanted to go look at engagement rings.” But take notice to how this all happens naturally, without you pushing yourself to do anything.

Speaking from personal experience, I have gotten some of my greatest manifestations without having to do a thing aside from consistently affirming. So, don’t let anybody - including people you interact with in your own personal life - tell you to do something in order to get what you want. You don’t have to text your SP to get them to talk to you. You don’t have to go to the gym to lose weight.

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You’re not doing anything wrong - keep going!

It has taken far too long for this concept to click in my head, but you aren’t doing anything wrong if you’re persisting yet still not seeing the full result in the 3D realm. It’s 100% guaranteed that your manifestation will present itself in the 3D. All you have to do is just keep going with affirming that what you want is what’s true.

This is what tends to trip people up (myself included). When you’re not seeing it in the 3D realm, it can definitely be discouraging and might make you question yourself. So, this is me encouraging you to keep going.

Don’t let people bring you down. If they say things like, “Oh give up on that person,” dodge that, especially with your thoughts. Don’t let the circumstances bring you down, either. Keep fighting it with what’s ideal in your mind. Remind yourself that you’ve already shifted into your desired reality, that you already have everything you want.

Use signs as fuel to keep going. Keep affirming and visualizing what makes you feel happier.

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“You can’t keep reacting to the 3D.”

Ah, but what if you can?

I’ve noticed there’s a lot of manifestation coaches and content creators who say you shouldn’t keep reacting to what you’re seeing in the 3D. But I beg to differ. You can very much manifest good things successfully while still reacting to your 3D. I will d*e on that hill.

Does it help not to? Sure. That indifference towards what’s going on in the 3D realm helps push your mind and thoughts away from it. But, you don’t have to force yourself to feel indifferent and completely detached.

You can feel upset over something happening in your 3D reality while still saying something in your mind like, “it’s okay. The 3D is the past reality. This isn’t my true reality.” This way, you’re allowing yourself to feel how you truly feel - you’re human, it happens - while still accepting that this isn’t your reality and believing something else to be your truth.

Imagine yourself in control of where you shift to. This scene of Squidward is a perfect visual.

I honestly feel like this is a healthier way of dealing with what you’re physically seeing. Forcing positivity onto yourself can make negative thoughts and feelings harvest. That would be using toxic positivity which is never healthy to put onto yourself or others.

After you react or feel negatively towards something you saw, saturating your mind with affirmations or visualizations is very helpful. It helps you cope with the negative emotions and thoughts. Your mind starts to believe more. Your 3D reality has no choice but to conform to what you’re telling it to be.

In my own experience, I’ve been able to manifest what I wanted even through bad reactions. When I was affirming that my platonic SP was talking to me, I still felt annoyed and unhappy with my 3D. When I was affirming my romantic SP’s help, I was just getting over crying. When I was affirming a revision, I was still frustrated. It is so easy to feel upset and that is 100% okay.

Content creator, Danielle Desautelle, acknowledges that a manifestation can form from you realizing there’s something you don’t like or don’t want in your 3D. That is so important to talk about because she is absolutely right. Let’s say you’re having a bad day. You noticing what’s going wrong because you’re feeling upset is what pushes you to manifest a better day for yourself. See how you can benefit from noticing and allowing yourself to feel negatively?

Referencing SpongeBob again, think of it like this scene. SpongeBob plants the pineapple seed into the ground. Then, he cries over it and it ends up making his house grow again. He was sad but his house still grew. You plant the seed of what’s making you sad, you allow yourself to feel sad while accepting the 3D, but you still get what you want because you see that as what’s true.

As long as you persist in believing or simply telling yourself you have what you want, it is yours. There’s no rules in law of assumption saying you can’t feel negatively or else you won’t get what you want. There’s no rules at all. LOA is simply the science of knowing what’s yours is yours. You’re limitless and figuring out what ways work best in helping you manifest is what’s most important.

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Days we waver

I am no perfect human - none of us are. We all have our bad days and good days. I felt amazing two days ago, but I’ve felt so anxious and overwhelmed this entire weekend. Not even joking at all when I say I was thinking, “why can’t one thing just go right for me?”

As someone who goes through this, I want to share what I do that helps pick me up through my difficult emotions. Maybe you’ve tried them, maybe you haven’t yet. But, I know what helps little by little.

Make up reasons for why something negative is happening in the 3D - let’s say your SP isn’t talking to you much when they were just talking to you yesterday. There’s that feeling of “they’re acting hot and cold. What if they don’t actually care about me?” Turn it around. Tell yourself, “they’re not talking to me because they get nervous around me.” “I look so good today, they feel nervous talking to me.” You assuming that instead is what’s true. That will be the actual reason why they’re not talking to you.

Reassure yourself that it’s 100% guaranteed that you have it as long as you keep persisting - It’s true. Simply saturating your mind with an affirmation of what you’re manifesting or just simply believing it’s true guarantees that it’s yours. Allow yourself to feel sad or angry, but also tell yourself, “I have [this thing]. Nothing’s getting in the way of that.”

Positively affirm - I always affirm what feels good to me and is uplifting when I’m sad. Find an affirmation for yourself that has a positive effect on you. My favorite right now is the classic Neville Goddard “Isn’t it wonderful?” Sometimes I’ll even reword it to “Everything is wonderful” or answer the question in my mind “Yes, everything is wonderful!” It can be hard to do when you’re sad or angry, but sometimes just repeating it over and over until you feel better does help.

Repeat robotic affirmations - If it feels too hard to affirm positively, then just use robotic affirmations. That’s stating it without using happy, uplifting words. Robotic affirmations can be very helpful and effective because you’re normalizing your manifestation as the truth. Positively affirming focuses more on shifting your emotions to how you’d feel in the end state (ie. you’re with your SP, you feel happy and loved) vs robotically affirming focuses on it simply being the truth and nothing but that.

Focus more on your 4D reality - In your 4D reality, nothing is impossible or going wrong because it’s what you are imagining/creating. Close your eyes, take a deep breath, and focus on a positive experience happening in your mind. Script it if that helps you. Even if you aren’t seeing it in your 3D reality right now, what you’re imagining will end up coming to fruition in the 3D realm because it has to conform to what you’re envisioning. Tell yourself that’s what’s true. Drill it into your mind.

Focus on the good movement and tell yourself it happened because you already have it - I know focusing on movement isn’t necessary, but it can help you move into your end state depending on how you look at it. What I like to do is use it to talk myself out of moments where I waver. Let’s say, for instance, you’re manifesting getting $1,500 a day, but, so far, all you’ve gotten are little bits of money here and there. You could tell yourself, “This isn’t how much I want. I’m still waiting for that full amount.” OR you could turn it around and tell yourself, “This is how I accumulate that $1,500 a day. It’s already happening. I’m already getting that money everyday. It shows up in different ways.” That positive outlook/perspective is how you may end up seeing your entire manifestation.

Yell at yourself, give yourself pep talks - obviously don’t be too harsh on yourself, but sometimes we need that (figurative) slap in the face. Remind yourself, yell at yourself that manifesting is easy and you DO have what you want. Be your own hype man. It helps me a lot.

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Forget about timing.

In our 3D reality, just about everything runs on time. There's clocks everywhere, deadlines for things, plans at specific times, calendars and planners showing what day it is, etc. It can be hard not to focus on time since society revolves around it.

Oftentimes, manifestation coaches and content creators say things like, "you can manifest [this thing] instantly!" or "challenge: manifest [this thing] in [this many days]" Then, half the comments will say they manifested the moment the coach said that or after they used a certain technique, their manifestation came to be. Meanwhile, the other half will be people simply affirming that they'll get their manifestation or saying that they can't manifest what they desire instantaneously or in a certain time span, if at all.

I myself have mixed feelings when I see content like that. Why? Because while, yes, it is possible to instantaneously manifest or manifest in a specific amount of time, that won't necessarily be the case for everyone in every situation, especially for those who have a hard time shifting into the wish fulfilled state. Also, stating you can get what you want in a specific amount of time can put unnecessary pressure on you when you're trying to change your state of mind.

I understand that manifestation coaches and content creators want to encourage you and help you understand that manifesting is simpler than you feel. BUT, again, this can unintentionally put pressure on you. When you feel that urge to have something as quickly as possible, you try using a technique, and then you don't see it in your 3D reality at the time you desire, you might feel frustrated and end up wavering. This topic of time can also come across in a gimmicky way depending on how the title is worded or how the creator delivers their discussion on the topic.

Speaking from my own experience, there are times I've gotten things instantaneously or in the amount of time I was expecting. However, there have also been times where I put too much pressure on myself and nothing came from it except for anxious feelings. So, that begs the question: how has there been times when it came quick or when I expected? I have an answer to that.

Whenever I drop my focus on the time, my manifestations show up in my 3D reality. All I have to do is keep the mentality of knowing it'll happen, even it's not delivered exactly when or how I expect it to be delivered. It's paradoxical: don't focus on the time - you can get it when you were originally expecting to, focus on the time - it won't come to you when you're expecting it to.

I know that sounds crazy, but this has always been the case based on my own experiences with manifesting. Taking deep breaths and tucking my phone away to keep myself from seeing the time tends to be a big help. When I pull out my phone again after what felt like a long period of time, the time I see shocks me. It hardly changed, as if it slowed down to the pace of a snail. Even reminding myself of the many different ways my manifestation could happen helps reassure me that what I want may be right around the corner.

So, this is me telling you: do not focus on timing.

Coming from someone who's a massive overthinker, I worry about my "bigger scale" manifestations not showing up in the amount of time that I want, then I don't see it. So, I'll say this repetitively as a reminder to both myself and you: manifesting is simply telling yourself that you have what you want. Circumstances, timing, and how it happens do not matter at all when it comes to manifesting. What may seem "bigger" and "harder" to manifest can come as easily as something you see as much "smaller."

It can be hard to rewire your brain to not focus on time since, like I previously said, society revolves around it. We tend to crave that validation and seek instant gratification. But, when we stop ourselves from fixating on the time and immediately searching for movement in the 3D realm, it's like time stops or slows down. And, then, BOOM, our manifestation shows up right when we expected it to.

I hope this breaks it down into simpler terms. I feel like it isn't talked about enough that simply drawing your focus away from the time is what can cause our manifestation to happen right when we want it to. In my myth debunking post, I mentioned timing of the 3D catching up to your 4D and being patient as it unfolds. This full explanation is what I mean by "being patient." Don't view it as patiently "waiting", view it as you having the patience to stop time because you know you already have what you want.

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Manifesting tip: make your SP look different in your 4D

So, if you’re someone who is still in frequent contact with your SP or has a distinct visual in your mind of what they look like, I have a recommendation. If this person isn’t how you want them to be, change how they look in your mind. Change the visual.

Even if you like how your SP looks in the 3D realm, imagine them always wearing something they wouldn’t typically or hardly ever wear; something you’ve never seen them wear before. I say this because simply imagining that helps separate the 3D version of them from the 4D version of them. In your mind, it’s still them but they’re still different from how you’re seeing them in the 3D realm.

This helps if you’re a very visual person but have a hard time separating the two different versions of your SP. Consistently imagine them looking a bit different. And when they conform, they’ll be wearing what you’ve imagined them wearing. Remember: the 3D has to conform to what you’re telling it.

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Robotic Affirmations

Context:

Normally, affirmations are thought of as motivating phrases to uplift yourself, especially through manifesting. However, the action of affirming is also defined as stating [something] as a fact; asserting strongly and publicly.

So, when you’re affirming what you want, you’re stating it as a fact; stating it with conviction. And, by two of its other definitions, it can be offering (someone) emotional support or encouragement and giving (life) a heightened sense of value, typically through the experience of something emotionally or spiritually uplifting.

So, it can be defined as (and reflect any of) these meanings. Affirming can also be viewed as a technique, particularly when it comes to working towards a manifestation. But, in truth, stating things as a fact is something we do pretty much all the time. Affirming is just something that’s talked about in the manifestation community because you’re doing it to get what you want no matter what. You can even affirm for others - it clearly states that in the second definition.

In the context of robotically affirming, it’s targeting affirming’s main definition (the first one I screenshot). Let’s dive deeper into that.

What is robotically affirming?

Again, this targets the main definition of stating [something] as a fact. That’s what you’re doing without adding any uplifting or motivational words. You’re stating your manifestation as a fact, with less emotion and more neutrality (hence why it’s described as robotic).

What’s the purpose of robotically affirming?

It’s pushing you to normalize your manifestation. You’re stating it with that sense of neutrality as a stronger way of acting like it’s already yours. When we word our affirmation in a more motivational and uplifting manner, it can sometimes imply that we don’t have it yet - we’re affirming to motivate ourselves moreso than to remind ourselves that it’s already ours. It has a stronger implication of “I’m going to get it in the 3D realm” vs “I already have it.”

And just as a disclaimer: neither of these ways are “wrong.” They’re just different ways of pushing yourself to the state of wish fulfilled. I cannot stress enough that there is no “right” or “wrong” way. You do what works for you if you’re struggling to get your manifestation.

Okay. Now let me give an example of each.

My romantic SP, Bee, is having a rough, busy day in the 3D realm. He doesn’t have the time or energy to talk to anybody, including me. Let’s say I react poorly to this: I start feeling really anxious. I say to myself, “Don’t worry, Jibb. He’s still your boyfriend. He’ll talk to you later.” I’m mainly uplifting myself through the reaction I just had.

Now, let’s change this a bit. I still react poorly, BUT I instead tell myself, “He’s my boyfriend. He’s talking to me.” That is a robotic affirmation. I’m of course well aware that Bee isn’t talking to me in the 3D realm - I got upset. But I’m choosing to affirm in a neutral manner that he’s mine and that he’s talking to me as a way of picking myself up while normalizing that idea that it’s mine in both realities. It’s “pretending” and acting as if Bee talking to me is my reality since I see him as my boyfriend, despite the fact that he isn’t talking to me in the 3D reality. Also, keep in mind, this can possibly have an even stronger push to the end state for me if I wasn’t or hadn’t reacted poorly to what I saw.

So, do you see the difference? Both ways of affirming work, but changing your wording to be more neutral can help your manifestation feel more normal to you, like you already have it.

How can robotically affirming be more beneficial?

It can possibly diminish a poor reaction AND push you closer or into the wish fulfilled state by how normal you’re making it sound to yourself. Or, if you didn’t react poorly, it can just quickly push you closer to - or fully into - your end state.

So, for some, acting more neutral/indifferent (“robotically”) and/or not reacting to the 3D is what shortens the process of shifting them into their wish fulfilled state. But, for others, simply affirming in a more encouraging manner can still help them shift into that state. Everybody is different with what works for them.

If you’re still struggling and haven’t tried this way of affirming, maybe give it a shot. It may work for you.