Hi! I love your blog!! I was wondering if you could tell me what Synastry/Composite aspects/overlays indicate having a soft spot for the other/each other? Or being completely wrapped around the other/each other's fingers??
𑣲 𝐬𝐲𝐧𝐚𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬 𝐚 𝐬𝐨𝐟𝐭 𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 ᢉ𐭩
۶ৎ 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐞/𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 - huge one here. moon feels comfortable with the adoration and admiration venus provides. venus in turn feels adored by the moon persons warmth and love.
۶ৎ 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫 - emotional joy and celebration with this aspect. the jupiter person connects the moon person to their inner child which allows them to “play” and express their feelings openly. moon allows jupiter to be big and bold without judgement or fear.
۶ৎ 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝟕𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐥𝐚𝐲 - moon is in tune with the 7th house persons feelings and emotions. they can sense what brings the 7th house person security, commitment and comfort. their warmth feels soothing to the 7th house person and becomes their ideal place to be.
۶ৎ 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐲 - moon feels their emotions are completely understood and validated by the mercury person and in turn, the mercury person feels like the moon person can help them verbalize their own emotions because they are so in tune with each other. they may finish each others sentences and it creates a very intuitive vibe between them.
۶ৎ 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐬 - this is softer than the moon conjunct mars aspect in which the trine has a more soothing effect. mars is protective of the moon and not in a harsh way, but in a gentle and warm way. moon then responds in an emotionally open energy towards the mars because they feel protected and safe.
۶ৎ 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐨 - juno feels devoted to the moon and sees the moon person as their one and only. they have a soft spot for them because the way moon expresses their emotions and just “is” makes the juno person want to protect and choose them over and over. moon in turn feels secure and safe with juno because they can physically feel juno’s devotion to them.
۶ৎ 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐨 - similar to moon conjunct juno, but the way venus expresses their love and affection is exactly what juno desires in a partner. this becomes even stronger when this conjunction is in the 7th house. juno becomes devoted to venus and desires their affection and will be committed to receiving it. venus in turn, feels valued and continues to pour affection into the juno person.
۶ৎ 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝟕𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 - the venus person feels like the 7th house persons ideal partner and vice versa which can create a soft spot for each other. they can both see the potential level of commitment within the connection even in the early days.
۶ৎ 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝟒𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 - moon feels at home in this overlay and tends to make the 4th house person feel very comfortable around them and at ease. the moon person provides the safe space for the 4th house person to be their true self behind closed doors which causes the both to feel this equal exchange of comfort. this creates a mutual soft spot and a safe haven in each other. this can bring a strong feeling of attachment to the other.
۶ৎ 𝐬𝐮𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧- i have this with my partner in cancer and this aspect, although talked about a lot really does create a soft spot for another person. as the sun, you see the moon person as the embodiment of your inner self and you deeply and intrinsically understand their emotions which makes it easy to validate them. the moon person sees their true self in you and wants to support and admire you for who you are. you become each others safe space and personal cheerleader.
۶ৎ 𝟓𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐥𝐚𝐲𝐬 (moon, venus, sun, jupiter) - you become the place the other feels free to express their inner child. in this house overlay, you feel that you can express joy to the highest degree when you’re around each other. this creates a feeling that one or both of you is wrapped around the others finger because the joy and romance is so addicting. you feel that when being around this person, they uplift your mood even when you’re going through hardships in your own life.
۶ৎ 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝟒𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 - venus feels comfortable in the 4th house persons space and finds pleasure being around the other. the 4th house person finds that venus makes their space feel more pleasant and soothing which can create a feeling that they never want to leave their bubble. venus can be the one bringing gifts and trinkets to the other persons house and they can enjoy sleep overs or find peace living together. this brings the ideal roommate.
۶ৎ 𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝟒𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 - the ascendant person reminds the 4th house person of their childhood for better or for worse but can create a feeling that the 4th house person is finally “safe” with the ascendant person. they bring a soothing aura and motherly energy to the 4th house person or the 4th house person can project this onto the ascendant person. the ascendant person can feel their impact on the 4th house person and in turn, becomes more open and accepting of the 4th house person’s true self. they see that little child in them and want to bring it out.
۶ৎ 𝐣𝐮𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧 𝟖𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞/𝟐𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 - this creates a lot of generosity between two people. 8th house rules over other peoples money and depth and with jupiter here, the jupiter person wants to spoil the 8th house person. they also want to know everything about the jupiter person which may feel invasive but oddly comforting. the jupiter person wants to expand the 8th house persons money and assets. the 8th house person can feel generous as well especially with their emotional energy or support in return. similarly, jupiter in the 2nd house can create a lot of generosity with finances or food between two people. jupiter wants to give and provide for the 2nd house person and vice versa. jupiter can help boost the 2nd house persons self esteem as well.
۶ৎ 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝟐𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 - similar to jupiter in the 2nd house, venus here likes to spoil the other person. venus however, wants to share their pleasures with the 2nd house person whether that is food, love, comfort, money or even things they hold dear to them. venus in a way, will want to serve the 2nd house person or vice versa. venus person may continuously give compliments to the 2nd house person and want to be very romantic. venus also might feel like they are wrapped around the 2nd house persons finger because they enjoy their voice a lot and love to hear them speak or sing.
۶ৎ 𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐲-𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐬 (trine/sextile/conjunction) - this creates a smooth flow when flirting with another. this aspect makes the mercury person really love the way venus persons voice sounds, while the venus person really loves the way mercury speaks. this can be a very romantic aspect that creates a soft spot for each other and encourages flirting and an exchange of romantic letters/words.
۶ৎ 𝐬𝐮𝐧-𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 (trine/sextile/conjunction) - venus here enjoys and admires the sun persons personality and who they are. they find being around the sun person to be fun and attractive. the sun person on the other hand, loves the way venus admires them and in turn, praises venus which creates a loop of admiration and attraction between the two.
𑣲 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐚𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐬 ᢉ𐭩
ᰔᩚ 𝐬𝐮𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 (especially in leo) - this aspect in a composite chart creates a sense of fun, excitement and attraction between two people. being around the other feels flirty and builds confidence and these two people find that this aspect creates a sense of favoritism. they feel the other is their “favorite person” which makes the connection one where they always want to spend time together or just be around each other.
ᰔᩚ 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 - this aspect in a composite chart helps both people feel that their needs are being met to the highest degree. they rarely have to discuss what they want; the other is just naturally exuding and doing it. they feel very safe with each other and feel as if they’re in their own world together. their needs align and the feminine person in this connection (or if they’re both feminine) feel very soft and in tune with their emotions when they are together.
ᰔᩚ 𝐬𝐮𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐲 - this is a common aspect but creates a sense of camaraderie and a soft spot between the two because they feel like good friends. communication flows and is easy to maintain. they are unlikely to run out of things to say to each other which just keeps the mental stimulation going and they can find themselves talking to each other for hours.
ᰔᩚ 𝟓𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐮𝐦 - in a composite chart this is can be very romantic and playful! both feel that their inner child has been unlocked and they find themselves wanting to go on dates or do things they loved in their childhood with their partner. it can feel very heartwarming and almost as if their honeymoon stage never ends. they’re that couple that has been together for 4 years and still acts like it’s the first day they met. this placement reminds me of six thirty by ariana grande
ᰔᩚ 𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐭 - cancer in the composite chart in general creates a very warm and nurturing bond between the two but the cancer ascendant gives the vibe that the couple is already settled in. they each bring out a nurturing and soft side of themselves to the relationship and treat each other with kindness and delicacy. they’re able to sense each others moods and bring the other comfort when needed.
ᰔᩚ 𝟒𝐭𝐡 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 - this is similar to the venus in 4th synastry overlay, except the possibility of being a golden roommate is much stronger. these two are able to create a pleasant and beautiful home together. if this is a family member, they might be considered your favorite family member among others or if this is a partnership they can feel really uplifting to be around. you instantly upgrade each others space.
ᰔᩚ 𝟕𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 (sun, mercury, saturn, venus, jupiter) - this creates a relationship focused on partnership and you can find that you two are mirrors for each other. you see the best and worst in the other and this person often feels like your “twin” or soulmate. you may go through the relationship feeling an “us against the world” type of vibe because that’s just how close you two are. this can lead to codependency a lot of the time which makes it feel like you are both wrapped around each other finger.
ᰔᩚ 𝐬𝐮𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫 - this is a very joyous aspect which makes spending time together feel larger than life. the laughter, jokes and pure good vibes happening in this connection make it so fun to be around. you feed off each others positive energy and this connection can really uplift your spirits when you’re feeling down.
ᰔᩚ 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐞 - this aspect makes it easy to intuitively sense the other persons emotions and inner dialogue. it’s easy to forgive your partner or whomever you have this aspect with. this aspect naturally brings out a telepathic energy between you two.
ᰔᩚ 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝟑𝐫𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞 - this moon placement makes the relationship feel like you are best friends. it’s easy to talk about your feelings and express your deepest and most random thoughts to each other. you find that this connection makes you feel like you can vent anytime and that you can both be each others therapists. you each lend a shoulder and a listening ear and the mental stimulation almost never ends!
ᰔᩚ 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫 - i have this with my partner it’s an aspect that creates not only a lot of generosity and forgiveness, but a lot of growth as well. this aspect can create a feeling that you two can grow together through the unconditional love you receive/give to each other. it’s a feeling that you want to give the other person the world and then some.
ᰔᩚ 𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 - similar to moon trine neptune, this moon placement in the composite chart creates a very intuitive and telepathic bond. with this, you can vividly feel the other persons emotions even when you’re not near them. emotions can feel foggy at times but you are also able to grant the other person forgiveness even through hard times. they’re the person you feel safe being silent with because you rarely need words when you’re together; their energy still brings comfort and peace through your telepathic bond.










