How to flirt:
(In case you need it, btw I have tricked at least 10 guys into wanting me so this is good advice)
Take notes 🗒✏️
1) Eye Contact
Most people like eye contact. However, don't just stare into their soul. Switch between looking at their eyes, and their mouth. DO NOT FORGET TO BLINK NORMALLY or a little more. Don't flutter your eyelashes, but instead blink slower- not too slow or you'll come off as weird.
2) Body language
Despite what people say, crossing your arms can look flirty and not closed off. If your face is pleasant (meaning you have some kind of smile and slightly raised eyebrows), you will look flirtatious. However, there is an easier way. Simply hold your arms casually to your sides or behind you. Try to avoid having your arms in front of you because this might look closed off depending on how you hold them.
3) physical contact
BEFORE YOU DO THIS, OBSERVE OTHERS AROUND THIS PERSON OR ASK DIRECTLY IF THEY ARE OKAY WITH PHYS CONTACT
When you are laughing or something you can touch their arm, this shows you are comfortable around them. Or when you are sitting next to them "unintentionally" touch their hand or bump their knee with yours. You could also LIGHTLY bump your shoulder into theirs when passing.
4) text them
A simple good morning or goodnight can definitely help. NEVER i repeat, NEVER say gm/gn. It is soo frickin dry. You can text and ask for the homework assignment or just how their day was too.
5) tease them
DO NOT GO OVERBOARD. I made the mistake once, and even though it didn't turn out bad-quite the opposite, you don't want to be mean. Just make simple sarcastic remarks or say something about their hair/ clothes. But make sure they know you are just joking. You can also steal their things. Grab their pencil out of their hand while writing and start using it, or steal their waterbottle.
6) talk to them like a normal human being
I have no words for this one.
7) be yourself.
Don't change yourself for someone to like you. Nobody wants to date someone like that. People want someone with character and personality. People want to learn about YOU and YOUR interests, not that one "popular" girl you think is better than you.
8) Show that you are interested
Don't just talk about yourself all the time, ask them questions. 'What's your favorite color?' Etc. Even if you already know the answer. Make a "game" out of it by asking if they know/can guess yours.
Hope this sorta helped ciao darlings
