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radblr: bi women who only have sex with and date women but had a mild crush on a man once are still bi! (which is true) but also a generous portion of radblr somehow: bi women who only have sex with and date men but have crushes on and fantasies about women sometimes are heterosexual. This reminds me of many other instances of people defining what bisexuality is and contradicting themselves in the process. Saying that a woman is straight if she has sexual fantasies of women validates shit like bi women who claim they are lesbians because they only had a few fantasies about men sometimes. Stop it. For the love of everything. Bisexuality is the attraction to both sexes. In any capacity, frequency and intensity. Stop cherry picking what bisexuality is so it fits your personal narrative and comfort. This goes for bi women, lesbians and heterosexual women. None of you are free of doing this bullshit on here.

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Happy birthday Mischa!!!!

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I find its funny that especially on radblr sometimes you guys think that all febfems are febfems for political lesbianism reasons or because they hate men or something. The term is literally "female exclusive BISEXUAL female". No one is denying their sexuality here, just signaling to other bi women that they can find someone likeminded here. Especially if you are a lesbian or het, if thats something you dont f with or understand you should just stay out of. You are not bi, so shut up please. This is bi women being openly bi and building a community for themselves. "all bi women end up with a man eventually" is such a loved phrase on radblr but the second bi women end up with women and want to build a community it's wrong as well. I generally dont care for what reason a bi woman decides to only date women. But you know what else gets on my nerves? why do people always focus on men so much when they criticise febfems. A ton of bi women just love pussy. Love to drown in it to be precise. And that more bi women than most of you think actually prefer women. And just at one point in their life not date men anymore, if they have started at all. Because men dont give them the same intense feelings that women do or not as frequently or whatever. You dont need to hate a man to not get wet for him or to lose interest fast. Of course the vast majority of women like that dont call themselves febfem. Its a new term and quite online still. I met a lot of bi women who only dated women in the early 2000s during lesbian and women only parties and meetups. They usually didnt call themselves anything. But they just.. are "female exclusive bisexual females" by definition. What else would you call that? And yea I mean, most of them just called themselves lesbians in the past and also the present unfortunately. Watch any documentary or interview with older lesbians and a bunch of them is obviously bi and just decided to go for women exclusively at some point. Political lesbianism is pure disgusting shit but was much more rare than bi women with a preference just being naturally drawn to women more and settling on that without making it a big deal. Any bi woman calling herself a lesbian is lesbophobic bullshit for any reason of course. But that strengthens my love for the febfem term. I want every bi woman who prefers women to proudly call herself bi. If she feels more comfortable doing that when she can find other likeminded women by saying "I am a bi female who exclusively dates other females, who is doing the same?" who am I to judge. And who are you to judge. That's 1000x better than bi women calling themselves lesbians for whatever reason. It's even better than bi women just saying "I am bi" because it signals to other bi women that bi women with preferences for women exist. Which was currently obscured because most of them didnt call themselves anything or lesbians. I know I have been throwing febfems with a preference for men under the bus a bit here. 4B febfems and all those. You girlies rock as well, you are amazing, I love you a lot. But just wanted to say.. in my personal experience with actually meeting and dating bi women who only date women.. many of them dont do it bc they hate men or to make some political statement, most of them do it bc they like women more sexually and romantically as a natural intense preference. Like.. nothing wrong if you are a febfem who made that descision bc you had bad experiences with men. Again: you rock. But i hate how people who feel uncomfy with bi women only dating women always are so focussed on dick. You brought that up. We are just chilling here, loving women.

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