I think lately I've come to understand Jiang Cheng a whole lot more than I ever expected to.
At the moment my brother is also in a very "destroying his own life and not asking for help or communicating anything" point in life. And it's more frustrating than most people expect. I think I haven't lashed out as much as I could, because we still have parents to keep us in check but I do think Jiang Cheng was very justified in demanding answers from Wei Wuxian.
You can judge him all you want but until you're in that position where the person you love is refusing your help and not communicating anything... then it's not so easy to say that you would do one thing or the other.
Furthermore, with the weight of responsibility on his shoulders and that wound or never being chosen first or known and loved deeply for who he is, that just makes everything even more raw and frustrating.
So. It's literally impossible for me to judge him because I'm at a point in life where I understand almost every single emotion he's gone through. I haven't lost everything, thank goodness, but I've been pretty damn close. I've seen some absolutely F'ED UP crap that few people can even imagine. So. Like. I get it! I get it.
It makes me want to lash out too.
