Accepting sincere advice and following the truth is from one of the greatest obligations - Shaykh Rabee bin Hadi Al-Madhkhali
Accepting sincere advice and following the truth is one of the greatest obligations upon all of the Muslims, from whichever source it comes from. It is not permissible for a Muslim to belittle and disrespect the sincere adviser regardless what his status may be.
I seek refuge with Allah that I reject an advice and defend a mistake or falsehood which emanated from me; for indeed this is from fhe…
Ladies, how do you deal with worry about not finding your man, your true love? Not getting married and having a family and home of your own? I'd love to love and to be loved back, but I realise that there's a chance of me staying unmarried. I don't get noticed by men, and if I do, they don't agree to my 'no intimate relationship before marriage' policy. So...my prospects sound bleak. Is there anything you do or say to yourself to ward off the loneliness and longing? Is there a way to prepare yourself for staying alone and for accepting your fate?
Please, be polite if you comment, I get enough trouble as it is when I explain my troubles to relatives 💗
I have a problem accepting help from others. I am a very independent person and throughout my life I have grown very accustomed to doing things on my own. It is my first hand nature to simply roll up my sleeves and get to work on whatever needs done. Whether the washing machine breaks or the lawn needs mowed and I’m wearing an eye patch and can barely see to mow it, I get things accomplished. I…
When your friends make “did you just assume her gender” when people say ~something something guys and girl~ as a joke but for you it’s not really a joke 🙃
lmao one day i’ll correct them... one day.
it’s not that important to me that i’d be an imposition and correct strangers, because gender is like a nonfactor for me, but like idk it’d be cool if i actually told somebody about this and like... they treated my identity as legit. maybe i’ll actually come up with a solid plan on who to tell, how, and when.
i figure i should tell my parents, but they’re pretty transphobic; so maybe i’ll just tell them i’m bi because they say they’re cool with gay people (any my uncle is gay). i’d probably tell my uncle the whole picture (he did say he was tired of being the only gay person in the family so~)
my friend groups break into about 5 biggish groups: 4 at college, 2 at high school. i feel like i could tell 3/4 my college friends (at the very least about sexuality, my friend/future suitemate asked about my rainbow tape on my laptop the other day so i’m pretty sure they know i am Not Straight(TM) and they’re still cool with living me so i’m winning this life game right now)
but my high school friend groups are very ... mixed when it comes to LGBT things. example: one of my friends is the most liberal person i’ve ever met and an activist for probably everything, but another person from the same group was upset that her friend is dating a trans person and has said some transphobic/homophobic stuff. the other group is very big and i’m not in contact with a lot of them, so maybe i won’t do that (unless i come out very publicly on like facebook or something, but that probably won’t be unitl MUCH later).
having a non ~mainstream~ identity that overlaps with other things makes coming out complicated. because not only do i have to say “i’m this” but i’d need to explain what “this” is. and i barely know myself and i don’t want to realize that i’ve rushed to this conclusion and have to pull a taksie-backsie
(since i’m tagging this here’s some background: agender/asexual/panromantic (but i say bisexual because it’s easier for people to understand) freshman in college very recently (like within the last month-ish?) came to the conclusion of my identity and trying to navigate this “closet” thing)
Should I make a gofundme? Or is there a better version of a similar thing? I'm kind of at a loss and this was entirely unexpected, especially after I just had to help my fiance deal with our cat Fuego getting a urinary blockage. It's just all adding up and I don't know how to proceed.
I'm being held hostage during nap time! Zac thinks boobies really ought to nap with him. He now has a new trick to make sure they stay around while he's sleeping. He gently holds the nipple between his TEETH. It doesn't hurt when he's drinking or if he's just sleeping & suckling off and on, but if I try to detach OMG! I have to scrape his little teeth all along my nipple to get it free. My husband is super proud that Zac has all 4 front teeth already. His family has some genetic weirdness with their bottom front teeth, so it's a relief to him. Not.a.relief.2.me. *singing* Pharaoh, pharaoh. Uh huh. Oh baby, let my nipple go. Uh. Ya ya ya yayaya.
