#accepting help

[theghostofashton]

ugh and it makes my heart ache so much for judd because he's just trying his best. he's always been trying his best. grace left to do something really important to her and he's done his best to be supportive and hold down the fort with charlie and their life in austin. wyatt had his accident and judd quit his job so he could give him his full attention and time as a caregiver and now that wyatt is able to be independent and working he's doing his best to give him that space he needs. and time is passing and everyone's lives are moving on and he's still doing his best to stay afloat but it's so much harder when there's all this space where people in his life used to be, his wife, his son, his crew, his support system. he's doing his best to handle it because that's what he does and it's finally gotten to be too much and that's just so.... :(

[andreai04]

'Everyone has some kind of debt,' replied Eithné. 'Such is life, Maria Barring. Debts and liabilities, obligations, gratitude, payments... Doing something for someone. Or perhaps for ourselves? For in fact we are always paying ourselves back and not someone else. Each time we are indebted we pay off the debt to ourselves. In each of us lies a creditor and a debtor at once and the art is for the reckoning to tally inside us. We enter the world as a minute part of the life we are given, and from then on we are ever paying off debts. To ourselves. For ourselves. In order for the final reckoning to tally.’

'Unbridled altruism is a huge vice of mine,' he explained. 'I simply have to do good. I am a sensible dwarf, however, and know that I'm unable to do everyone good. Were I to attempt to be good to everyone, to the entire world and to all the creatures living in it, it would be a drop of fresh water in the salt sea. In other words, a wasted effort. Thus, I decided to do specific good; good which would not go to waste. I'm good to myself and my immediate circle.'

‘A sense of guilt, as well as the need for expiation, for a cleansing baptism of fire, aren't things you can claim an exclusive right to. Life differs from banking because it has debts which are paid off by running up debts with others.'

‘For a war is raging, and disinformation is a weapon whose blade must always be kept sharp.’

‘Some say everything in the world — everything, with no exception — has a price. It's not true. There are things with no price, things that are priceless. But you realise it belatedly: when you lose them, you lose them forever and nothing can get them back for you.‘

[stillfuckingtired]

Asked for help and accepted the support without feeling guilty goooooo me!!!!

[inlovewithquotes]

While it is always best to believe in oneself, a little help from others can be a great blessing.

-Iroh

[opaline-gemme]

[girlzoot]

“But you’ve been doing everything yourself for a long time. It’s hard to turn around and accept help when you’re used to everyone failing you.” —Sam Burns/Fluke and the Faithless Father

[lotus-and-friends]

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Credit W.I.P.

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