#hyper independence

[feral-ballad]

Zehra Naqvi, from The Knot of My Tongue: Poems and Prose; “Grocery Shopping”

[Text ID: “You don’t want anyone to ask you if you need help, to ask if you are okay, to feel sorry for you, no one, no one gets to have this, no one gets to make you into a body they think they know how to read.”]

[selenitequing]

enjin hating 'needy' people bc he was forced to be completely self-reliant and maybe that's an unhealed part of him that hates when people can't just simply figure it the fuck out on their own and it feels unfair to him in comparison.

[eldestdaughtersyndromeforreal]

There are two devils in me .

[http-tempted]

when you’re talking to someone your age but realize how much reality hasn’t hit them yet

[ash-says]

Put your body on autopilot mode when it comes to your routine. Make a list of things that your body should just do even if you deviate from it due to external circumstances your body should bring you back to it out of sheer habit or default setting. It should be your instinctive response.

To people who are hyperactive like me, people who have a lot of energy, people who are jittery, people who are nervous, people who are anxious build a routine that sustains you not a you that sustains some unrealistic routine.

Get in touch with your body. The best thing I did as a 17-18 year old was to deeply understand my body and be cutthroat with its yes and no. Anything my body wants she gets it. Anything my body doesn't want smack the fuck out of it from my view. No one in this world can make me do something that my body didn't say yes to even 1%.

Ladies please understand I have been a victim of hustle and grind culture and hyperindependent worship but it literally kills our body from inside. Achieve all your huge goals but remember a healthy body is always one of them.

That's why make a routine that sooo default for you that skipping it makes you feel uncomfortable not out of fear but because your routine is what makes you relax, something you enjoy and something that grounds you all the while keeping you productive.

[torstherapy]

[sailingfireshipz]

"I'm pretty self sufficient" a Stella Kidd mantra

Give me 60 minutes and I will leverage the psychology course i took in college to explain how Stella's early formative years being impacted by the death of her parents before being thrust into becoming an infacto caregiver to her aunt & two younger cousins has contributed significantly to the way she processes or fails to process her grief and trauma....

[copingwithmemes]