Feb 17, 2024
La creatura (Dreizehn)
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La creatura (Dreizehn)
I also think it's rly weird when ppl talk abt androgyny bc ppl always discuss it as an abstract concept cruelly inflicted upon them and not like real actually living people's gender and gender presentation? Like it's rly fucking dehumanizing to listen to ppl talk abt androgyny in this conceptual way that's caused them harm without any consideration for people who are androgynous who might be reading or listening, as if we just don't exist except as an idea to make them feel bad ig lol
gonna boost this again because I love it. Discord server for trans/nb/fluid people!!
If you want the link, shoot me a message. 😁
To trans boys who need to hear it:
You look super handsome!
Your chest is looking so flat!
Whoa, you’re trans? I had no idea!
Your voice is so deep, wow!
Those clothes look so good on you, whoa!
You are such a great handsome man!
You’re so super masculine!
Love you!
To trans girls who need to hear it:
You’re so cute-looking!
Your curves look so feminine!
Whoa, you’re trans? I had no idea!
Your voice is so high, it’s crazy!
Your clothes look so super good on you!
You are such a lovely feminine girl!
You’re so super feminine!
Love you!
To NB people who need to hear it:
You look so handsome/cute/good-looking today!
Your chest/curves/are looking so good/flat!
Your voice sounds so good!
Those clothes look so nice on you!
You are such a lovely person!
You are such a good human being!
Love you!
The fact that ppl took "autigender," an nb gender designed to express how being autistic can fuck with your understanding of gender bc, shockingly, its largely just another confusing social construct and a lot of autistic ppl can be categorized as gnc (or are described that way by neurotypical/allos, esp because autism has specific gendered stereotypes to it), and made it "haha autism gender you wanna identify as an autism" is so ungodly ableist and nbphobic like nd/mi and nb ppl can't have jack fucking shit can they
Ppl: im tired of the nonbinary characters all being aliens
Me: babes they wont even let the aliens be nonbinary lol
Like I can not stress enough that if your post abt binarism and exorsexism says something negative abt androgyny, it's no longer about binarism and exorsexism. The point you're making becomes totally different. The only thing that matters in that post is whatever opinion you've expressed about androgyny
I think the thing that deeply frustrates me is that when ppl say "it's ok for nonbinary people to look masculine or feminine or have traits often associated with masculinity/femininity" then that's a perfectly fine commentary on the gender binary and social expectations but when you end that with "as opposed to being androgynous" you're no longer commenting on the gender binary and the implication immediately shifts to "gendered traits are at odds with being androgynous and by default indicate binary gender, and of the two I think more positively of the latter"