friends and strangers I need your help
this might sound crazy, but I have looked through youtube and found not a single video on
How to look "cute" while in burnout or depression
What I mean is: how can I make myself look and feel a bit better when I don't even have the energy to sweep the floors and go for a walk
So, I'm calling on the army of my fellow chronically ill, burnt out and depressed lovelies to please help me out here. Because I really don't know where to start apart from "wash my hair". And the whole level of "how to contour" is waaaaaay too high for me (not just right now).
I'm audhd and there are just a few things that I don't do even when I'm not as bad as right now;
the only jewelry I wear are small studs as earrings or for my nose piercing
I do not do lipstick for sensroy reasons
I don't use actual "make up" like foundation and things for sensory and skin care reasons
I love my hair the most about me
I have a very high up undercut going around and the top of my hair is long (a little over shoulder length)
I am fat, old and tired, possibly sick. Sounds mean, is meant neutral; my face is very round with a double chin, eyebags, and showing signs of my age (aka starting to get the bulldog look)
I just don't know what to do. Do I put on Mascara? Do I have to remove that before going to bed? What kind of eyeliner-line can I put on? (I've been strongly advised to not do the black line anymore because it will make me look older and my eyes look smaller?)
Can any of the beautiful women who battles these things regularly help me feeling a little more cute, less "ugly tired old hag"? Please?
