when allos interpret friendships as romantic/sexual that's perfectly fine but when I interpret songs about romance/sex as actually platonic im weird for that???
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when allos interpret friendships as romantic/sexual that's perfectly fine but when I interpret songs about romance/sex as actually platonic im weird for that???
I'm an aego who has recently found weirdly allo attraction and a lessening of my disconnect towards one person in specific (my partner - we've not actually had sex yet though) and it's fucking weird. I just wanna pop in here to say it's fucking weird to actually wanna have sex with someone, especially a specific someone. sex is a state of mind, not reality!!!
“Sex is a state of mind, not a reality” ooooh the aegoness of that statement.
Sidenote: it sounds like you’re demiaegosexual
117: aegopolystic
DEFINITION ⦂⠀A microlabel on the apolystic spectrum that describes individuals who experience a disconnect between themselves and the subject of arousal. Aegopolystics may experience polystic (Tumblr link) fantasies, enjoy romance and other romantic content, or engage in shipping, but they generally feel little to no polystic attraction and typically do not desire to involve themselves in relationships with multipld individuals.
ADDITIONAL ⦂⠀Coined on the 21st of September, 2025.
TAGGING ⦂⠀@c1rcus-of-silliness ⠀@orientation-archive⠀@radiomogai
I designed some aegoficto flags for myself. Little envelopes /pos
is it possible to be bellussexual and aegosexual? I know aegos usually stay out of sexual situations, but what I imagine doesn't feel sexual to me it's just the context
I don’t see why you can’t. I think bellus is related to aego. Like how demisexual and fictosexual are. There are flavors of aego that can put the self into the fantasy they’re just more specific
having allo friends is so weird because such a huge part of their lives is something I will absolutely never understand completely
coming across a song that just Isnt About Romance Or Sex and immediately calling it aroace because i crave representation
Is it possible to be bellussexual and orchidsexual?
So... Bellus is someone who experiences little to no attraction but wants to engage in sexual activity
And Orchid is someone who experiences sexual attraction but doesn’t want to engage in sex
So I would probably consider them opposites... and think it’d be very difficult to be both at the same time?
Thoughts?