#allo aros

[queerarodynamics]

To aro men, especially trans aro men,

Friendly reminder that you are not encouraging toxic masculinity by being aromantic.

Friendly reminder that you're complete and whole. You don't need a romantic partner (particularly a woman) to fix you.

Friendly reminder that it is okay to want friends who you can have sex and nothing "more". Friendly reminder that there need not be a more. Friendly reminder that friendship can be everything.

Friendly reminder that you will have meaningful relationships. That you have meaningful relationships. That meaning in relationships is transcendent of language. It is something you create.

Friendly reminder that you're a good man.

Friendly reminder that you are loved for who you are. Whatever love means to you. And if love means nothing to you then you are cared for, respected, safe, whatever it is you want.

Friendly reminder that masculinity transcends the rules we've laid out for it.

Friendly reminder that international men's day is for you.

[shadowdemon-gd]

I kinda wish online friends with benefits were a thing. People are getting more accepting of the idea of online relationships, so why not online friends with benefits? It’s perfect for my aroallo self

[rainbow-in-the-darc]

Allo Aros you don't owe anyone being asexual or having an attraction that isn't split

💚🤍💛

[hard-times-paramore]

Fuck it, I wanna give some appreciation to allo aros. All my homies love allo aros. Y'all are deadass carrying the aspec community on your backs, supporting sex positivity and calling out intra-community issues, I don't know where I'd be without y'all!! Heck!! FUCK!!! I love y'all

[liquidlikecats]

There is no default sexuality for aros :)

Don't make assumptions

[splend-aros]

Bi-Weekly Affirmation 041.

Allo aros, your voices matter. The aro community should strive to uplift you and respect you.

[queerarodynamics]

Friendly Reminders for aro men (Valentine's Day Edition.)

I forgot about Valentine's Day, like a proper God-fearing Aromantic. Anyways, here's the Valentine's Day post for aro men-esp trans and non-binary men.

To aro men, esp trans aro men:

Friendly reminder that it's okay to spend Valentine's Day with your best friend even if amatonormativity tells you it's not. Nothing is romantic unless you want it to be.

Friendly reminder that, yes, it's okay to just want to get laid, no romo. You do not have to partake in romance if you do not want to.

Friendly reminder that you are not "emotionally unavailable" because you do not partake in romantic performance.

While we're on this note, friendly reminder, that even if you are emotionally unavailable, it's for you to decide how available you want to be, to who, and why. Amatonormativity has no place forcing you to be "open".

Friendly reminder that you don't have to hate Valentine's day or love it or like it. You can simply not care. Even if you are dating someone. Even if sometimes you feel romantic attraction. Even if you feel love.

Friendly reminder that you are not alone in the distinct sort of loneliness that sets upon us on the 14th of February. It's okay.

Friendly reminder that you can get flowers for yourself. And chocolates. They're supposed to be on sale but it's been a whole 3 days. Damn it.

[shadowdemon-gd]

Are there any aroallos here? I wanna make aroallo friends