#allopl

[isobug]

Friendless Alloplatonic / Friendless Alloplspec flag

For anyone who is Alloplatonic / Alloplspec and Friendless for any reason.

Some examples may be using the term in a reclamatory way ( such as for those who are neurodivergent and have been mocked for struggling to make friends ) or in a synonymous / similar way to Nonfriending Alloplatonic / Alloplspec.

Made by combining this Alloplatonic / Allopl / Alloplatonic spectrum / Alloplspec flag by @ryanyflags with this general Friendless / Friendlessness flag by @revenant-coining.

Requested by anon but free to be used by anyone anywhere. ( As always, this is inclusive of Orchid-specs who wish to be included. ) This was posted for Bug out of Iso's drafts so if there are any errors please let me know and i'll look over them with Bug so we can fix them.

[allegoriesandepithets]

Large Pixel Size Allo- Flags

[PT: Large Pixel Size Allo- Flags]

Allosexual ~ Alloromantic

Alloplatonic ~ Alloqueerplatonic

Alloalterous ~ Allosensual ~ Alloaesthetic

Allosexual and alloromantic flags use colors from @isobug’s allose-spec and alloro-spec flags.

All flags are 3000x2000 pixels.

@tertiary-attraction-archive @radiomogai @liom-archive @imoga-pride

[apl-culture-is]

I'm asking in good faith, is it bad I avoid aplatonic people typically? I have multiple disorders that make me attached to people easily. If someone is aplatonic not seeking friends I'd just get attached to a impossible friendship and it'd hurt. Am I evil for this?

I wasn't sure how to answer this at first.

However, it's not bad or evil to take care of your mental health. However I would suggest checking out the notes on this thread as there as some really good points.

I won't be making any points here that others have already made that were also very good and insightful. Though I would encourage you to challenge yourself. Is there anything stopping you from communicating with aplatonics that you may know or encounter about whether they want friendships or not? Why? Some apls actually really do want friendships, such as plato-favorable apls - we're not all the same. Desire is not the same as attraction.

Doing this could improve your interactions with us, and could not only benefit your mental health but the mental health of apls as well. Do your best to keep yourself healthy, but also respect and support us too.

You don't have to any long term encounters or relationships with anyone that you don't want to, but do your best to challenge any blocks you might have around us as a community.

I would encourage you to read these pieces of the same thread I linked before in full too:

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[isobug]

Friending and Nonfriending Platonic flags

In order, the first row is Friending Aplatonic, Friending Aplatonic ( alternate flag ), and Friending Alloplatonic / Allopl / Alloplatonic spectrum / Alloplspec ( inclusive of Orchid-specs who wish to be included. )

The second row, in order, is Nonfriending Aplatonic, Nonfriending Aplatonic ( alternate flag ), and Nonfriending Alloplatonic / Allopl / Alloplatonic spectrum / Alloplspec ( inclusive of Orchid-specs who wish to be included. )

Made by combining these Friending and Nonfriending flags by @revenant-coining with these Aplatonic flags, and this Alloplatonic / Allopl / Alloplatonic spectrum / Alloplspec flag by @ryanyflags!

Requested by anon but free for everyone to use anywhere! I'm open to making more of these with more specific flags under each umbrella but these are general and intentionally broad / inclusive.

Taglist - @revenant-coining, @radiomogai