#angry ex

[olyfilmgirl]

OK, 2005 just came back to haunt me.

And if the weirdo really stopped speaking to me because I favorited the video for Harry Nilsson's "You're Breaking My Heart" on YouTube, then I was not the immature one in that 'situationship'.

Ugh! I don't need this crap in my head right now.

[pozitvlyblah]

There is someone on my fb tagging her ex in all her angry fb post from when they were together....this is amazing

[lunicmusic]

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[anything-advice-blog]

Why does he care if he broke up with me but hates that I’m moving on?

Why does he does this?. It’s ok if he moves on and is in a relationship but its not ok for me to do it?. I’m not saying I let him get involved in my life but my question is why does he do this?.

 He has been dating a girl for three years they also plan to get married. However when a man tries to enter my life or tries to date me he doesn’t like it and goes and messes it up.

 I also went to his engagement party, he is a family friend and all, and while people were saying their congrats to him and kissing him on his cheek when I walked up to the stage he stood up for only me. He didn’t even stand up for his own mother.

 If it also helps he has anger issues like very bad anger issues and in the past has hit my ex boyfriend (Which resulted in, him sending my cousin to spy on our relationship and it ended). I was also the first girl he was intimate with.

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Possessive men! This is not healthy. I believe it is a control issue. Unfortunately, in many cases, controlling men look at their women, past and present, as property they own. He cannot stand the idea that you can be happy without him. And, yes, even though he seeks happiness and may have found happiness with someone else. Being affected by this behavior, he’s getting what he wants. Your time, your thoughts, your worry, your attention. Stop! He’s not your problem anymore.

First and foremost is your safety. Do you think he will bring harm to you or someone you date? If so, you should consider a protection from abuse citation that you can file with your local police. You need to make sure you unfriend him from any social media so he doesn’t know your business, block his phone number, and change your email. Are you in the same circle of friends? Is that why you were at his engagement party? From now on, decline any potential interactions with him. If you think it is necessary due to his temper, prior to doing all this, tell him you are severing all ties so the two of you can move forward with your own lives in a healthy manner. Do not be alone with him when you tell him. As I said, I want you to keep safety first. He may laugh or try to make you feel small but don’t feel badly. You know he is the one that has irrational thinking.

It is time for you to move on. Enjoy being single and enjoy your next relationship. When you feel close enough to your next dating partner, tell them if the situation hasn’t been resolved yet but to please not be bothered by any “shenanigans” from your ex. If someone shows up that you think will report back to him, decide if you want to call them out on it and show you’re displeasure or simply let it go and let any repercussions roll off your back.

What you’re feeling is frustration because it does not seem fair. It isn’t. Don’t be fooled that he regrets your break-up. He just has an unhealthy ego and you can be glad you are no longer involved.

Wishing you peace.

Tracey

[slowly-falling-in-reverse]

If I could skip ahead to him being over me I would. I just want to be happy.

[blindnboujee]

"Hotline Bling" Response.

Him: You used to call me on my cellphone, late night when you needed my love. Call me on my cell-

Me: Yeah, I USED to call you on your cellphone. Late nights, when I used to confide in you about everything. I used to call you on my cellphone, late night when I needed your advice, support, love and affection. You took me places no one else did, we were inseparable. I thought our bond was strongest so I gave you everything, including me. Then, you left me in the city. No more phone calls, not even a note. I had no one. I was lost without you because my life had become our life. Then, I got the courage to stop being sad and found some fucking individuality. I go out now with my friends and dance all night. I travel the fucking world and do it with women who love and support me. You taught me the best lesson on Earth, that I can do this on my own. I can stand on my own two feet and be my own person without you. Now, you want to whip and nae-nae your ass back into my life when you see me happy without you and expect everything to be exactly the same and it's not. So excuse me, if we don't get along now because you're mad that I don't need you anymore to have fun and that I fuck other people now. BRUH, YOU LEFT ME IN THE FUCKING CITY BY MYSELF. THE CITY! DID YOU FUCKING FORGET???

Him: But I know when that Hotline Bling-

Me: Get the fuck off my phone.

[pledge-of-the-sea-and-the-moon]

Ma vhenan in your ass, Solas.

[blacklavenderiusthe69th]

7-20-14

As if today couldn't get worse, as soon as I'm with a friend to ease my mind, his girlfriend has the nerve to ask me about some personal areas in my life that I only share with my friends(and hilariously my non-responsive tumblr).  I would've been okay with it and brushed it off if I didn't know why she asked. She asked because she has to know everything. She's really nosy. Her and my ex. They want to know about all of it, and they know that my friend Matt knows. They just continue to bombard Matt with questions about it, and like Mayweather to a flurry of punches, he dodges them all with ease. I don't get why they have to know. What is their obsession with fucking knowing everything!?

Why is my ex always in my business? She claims to hate me and calls me all out of my name for....well, existing near her, why the hell does she want to know what's going on in my damn life? I don't even care what's in hers, why does she want to keep her claws in my business? All she's gonna do is sit and talk shit. If someone told her I got cancer and was going to die soon, she'd probably scream in a massive amount of joy and dance on my grave! I'm really lost as to why she seems to care so much. hmm. Funny that she cares about my life more than I do hers, and she broke up with me. If you want to know what's going on so damn bad, why'd ya leave? Speaking of her leaving, the 29th is the day she broke up with me, and I shouldn't remember that exact date....oops. xD This is all just so dumb. That all pissed me off. Hoping that this week will be better. I can't deal with anymore of this shit.

This thing with my dad has actually sent my emotions off the rails. I'm still being really bothered by that. Everyone that doesn't seem to want to be in my life has something to say I guess. Anyone have an opinion on any of this?