#anon input

[novemberhope]

did you think about my idea with oc cordelia being crocodiles daughter

Like I said, I do like the idea, I just have no idea on how to get this going.

I don't know if the Crocomom theory is real or not, therefore I'm unsure of what exactly to make canon - and who the other parent would be.

There needs to be a reason on why he's not in her life or why he never knew about her

And if they are to met again, he would have to recognize her as his kid somehow because Cordy has no idea about her own past

If you (or anyone...) tell me know to tie all of this together, then yeah, I'm all for it.

[transx-mogai-cafe]

as someone who is very cis-disabled (autism, severe GAD, adhd, depression, BPD -- deformed hip, crutch user) the fact that people want to be like me is heartwarming. someone seeing my disorders and wanting the same for themselves makes me realize im NOT undesirable and a lost cause!!

Exactly, that's how I feel with my cisdisabilities!

[everblossomin]

Referring to the Jewish thread, my fam is not religious but they still don’t like the kids to have tattoos and the reason my mom gave me is because of our trauma during wwii. Everybody’s different and if that is how you think Remus views it, that is totally legit. You’re never gonna make EVERYONE happy, so just make yourself happy first, especially when it comes to your creativity.🥰

thank you so much for the input my dude!!! and thank you to the two other people who have come forward with their input as well, it's very valuable to me and i appreciate a lot having different perspectives. you guys are very sweet❤️❤️❤️❤️

[transx-mogai-cafe]

just wanted 2 submit some advice for anyone questioning or curious but are scared or unsure : make an original character or selfsona/persona with your questioning/desired terms‼️ it helped me become more accustomed to its usage (or helped me realize maybe it's not exactly right for me/what i want), before fully diving into adopting them into your identity + can help oneself explore oneself more deeply without judgement and guilt. =]

Good advice!

[transx-mogai-cafe]

(To the recent diaracial anon)

Hey, I'm transjapanese (that's technically transnational/a more specific transasian label, but I digress) and it sounds to me like you could be multiracial! Of course, you know yourself better than anyone. Don't worry too much about getting an exact accurate label immediately, just see what works best for you.

With love, a random Ayano Aishi & Yuno Gasai fictionkin on the internet.

Good advice, you can always change what you label yourself as!

[transx-mogai-cafe]

Cis autistic here! I can help with autistic transition!!!

Let yourself become sensitive to certain textures, avoid them,

Find stims you like and make it a habit to do them when having big emotions! Bad or good.

You can be non verbal, semi verbal, ECT if you wish.

Not all autistics avoid eye contact but I would recommend it!

Just some tips

Thanks anon! Some tips for transautistics!

[transx-mogai-cafe]

Terfs are totally using us for their conversion tactics. Trying to make people think twice

They and other right-wing reactionaries certainly like to use the guise of respectability politics to hide their bigotry. "Oh nooo if you let people get sex-affirming surgery next they'll want to be able to have amputations whenever they want!!" promise??

[transx-mogai-cafe]

People always say they can tell what age people are, but from my own experiences not true. When I was younger, due to my height and attitude, people consistently assumed I was an adult. Even now people are under the assumption that I am several years older than I am chronologically, and when I tell them my chronological age they're unsure of how to act! Like y'all don't know shit! Like people who act like a child might just be weird, neurodivergent or an age regressor! You can't tell their chronoage like that. There are a lot of social expectations tied to age and when your age is patently unclear people aren't sure how to act! They start getting hypocritical and confusing.

I have nothing more to add, you've put it very succinctly anon. 🤌