// ok. *deep breaths*
to be clear, i am not telling anybody what to do. i thought specifying that like 100 times was enough.
But apparently some people can't fucking read, and felt the need to attack the ask box. minutes later. like clockwork. the minute i speak up.
what I said was "if i can't find a tag that i can blacklist about [x] thing" i'll need to unfollow."
I don't fucking care what anyone smuts, arts, ships, etc. I really, really don't. I just really don't want to think about certain things right now. And the tags would be super-helpful.
it's your blog tho. Do what you want.
I am sorry if it came off any other way.
i see where my mistake was now. and that was trying to explain why i am going to do what i do.
the more info/feeling you share on this site, the readier people are to take those words and mangle them to mean something to fit their narrative.
seriously to the people who go on anon over real people having emotional reactions to things, Get a Real Hobby. You are 100% trying to start drama. If you weren't you'd just talk to me one-on-one off anon like some people can (and did) do. I'm not going to attack anyone. I'm a reasonable person.
To anyone who my words hurt, I'm sorry.
It's not at you.
There's many other things that have nothing to do with this. I won't go into it. Because it's clear there are still people waiting to hear that kind of thing so they can use it.
And yes, it is depressing the way fandom seems to approach ace people. That is how I feel personally. But I'm not about to tell anybody else what they can/'t write/art. That would be patrolling. I however, have to curate my space as best I can. If I can't find a way to do that, I have to part ways with some people.
