I have Venus (8th) opposite Pluto. I've been through those obsessive relationships and I know other girls with the same issue. But from a psychological point of view, I'd say the obssessive feelings tend come from a destructive part of us, especially us girls, who suffer with internalized misogyny. I've been reading "Women who run with wolves", by Clarissa Pinkola and I always recomend it to any woman. The second chapter talking about "Bluebeard" changed me forever. There's a free pdf online.
Hi anon,
Thank you for this- I’ve read the story of Bluebeard [especially after reading the book “YOU” by Caroline Kepnes] but never broken down the way Pinkola has. I’ve read the chapter you indicated per the PDF you suggested. Downloaded it for future reference as well. This Bluebeard breakdown sounds a lot like Pluto or even Saturn in a very under-developed form. Gold. Very insightful. The whole situation is a carbon copy of a Venus/Pluto synastry or composite situationship. I’d even go as far as to say Venus in hard aspect to Neptune- I feel the youngest sister in the story may have that going on as well.
I’d actually recommend this to anyone dealing or even suffering from a Pluto to inner planet contact natally or synastrically. I’ll add this to my recs of resources when I’m asked about them in the future. Again, thank you. I love finding new information in general and love psychology as a study. Fascinating. This was a good read. Gonna finish the book today.<3