"It's not hurting anyone" until it is, y'know
Obligatory "not all people" and "not all situation" yadda yadda yadda, but also, I don't feel like watering this one down into oblivion. You know what I mean.
#this is tough because I think ace people seeing that romance is possible for them if they want it is also important#and aro people seeing that sex and connection are possible for them if they want it is important#it's fair that there are so few ace and aro characters that it feels like why not just use allo characters#but there are ways to interface with ace and aro identities that aren't that
