#anuptaphobia

[ordinarycomics]

http://www.ordinarycomics.com/comics/2018/11/29/29november2018.htm

[detrans-tastic-blog]

that moment you made a promise to yourself you were going to mention something to your psychologist but then the moment is there and its freaking hot in the room and anxiety comes on and you're like NOPE better luck next time

[migkodog]

Tercerahkan... Saya menemukan tempat dimana orang- orang di dalamnya sepemikiran dengan saya... dan saya bisa belajar banyak dari situ... Kini rasa sakit di kepala saya berangsur mereda... hehe Mungkin untuk kedepan saya bisa berusaha lebih menyesuaikan dengan keadaan dan kekurangan saya... Terima kasih... #anuptaphobia... 😋 (di MOMON Internet Dan WM Mie Ayem Pak Sujak - Free hotspot Bosss"") https://www.instagram.com/p/CB4iPYJjM6z/?igshid=1vay8i03xoh6j

[blowingfacts365]

Anuptaphobia is the fear of being single forever. (Source)

[emiledi77]

[rainbowwcorn]

[j-alexa26]

Anuptaphobia...

The fear of being or staying single. Ultimately you live the life you live and you do what you want if that makes you happy NOW in the current times, and that's fine but is worth it in the long run? I'm an observer, a realist, and an analyst if you will and as much as some may not like to admit, we all fit into categories. Some of us are well aware of where we fall in these categories and some don't because for some of us, we are unable to step outside of ourselves OR.. we are afraid of the truth and are comfortable with living in oblivion. Anuptaphobia... The fear of being or staying single. How do you know what you want in a partner when you haven't been by yourself to even know who you really are? It has always been you and [fill in blank here] since ...forever! (Well you know not forever but since person number 1). Who are you? Are you sure about that? Insecurities and validation go hand in hand with people who tend to fall in this category. (This is all personal opinion, but you know when they say "if you're offended then this caters to you? Well baby, if the shoe fits..) I mean, to always be involved with someone whether there are titles to the relationship or not, back to back to back.. it seems like a coverup to the bigger picture > insecurities. Love who you are, but get to know who you are. You don't need to always be with someone to validate that you are loved, that you are beautiful, that you are needed/wanted, or whatever doubts that live inside you. It's absolutely okay to be by yourself for a bit to live for you and to get to know what [your name here] is really about! When you take time to focus on you, you're building a better you with so much more value. I'm talkin' big shit here as a 22 year old sounding like I've lived through it all (and maybe I have in a past life) but that's my point.. For my generation, we are in no rush for commitment! Of course we look around and want the cutesie shit that others around us have but take your time and live for you and have fun (but be safe and consensual lol). Know your worth and what you stand for, don't settle and let love find you, don't go looking for it.