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ik you got a life but why won't you text me damn
Genuine question. If dating someone with an anxious avoidant attachment style is akin to dating the devil, is there any way I can fix my attachment style without talk therapy? I’m tired of ghosting everyone but I don’t have the money for therapy rn
"I can’t stand being loved. leave me, leave me, leave me."
Bruce Springsteen, Born to Run // Mitski, First Love / Late Spring // Black Sea Dahu, Rhizome
self- sabotage tonight queen
i have an anxious attachment style
they have an avoidant attachment style
can I make it any more obvious
I would tell myself I'm not good enough for the people in my life which caused me to behave in ways that would drive them away and re enforce the story I was telling myself.. all because I was scared of having something to lose.
The familiar pain of abandonment is easier to deal with than the unfamiliar anxiety that comes with happiness and having something to lose.
what is with the demonization of avoidant attachment while simultaneously going awwww poor you when it comes to anxious attachment?