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[crushedbloodorange]

you said your partner is more sadistic than you. how else are you different as doms?

As much as I like to play tough on here, I am a much softer dom than my partner. I love giving praise; degradation/name-calling doesn’t really come naturally to me. The most I can do without feeling like I’m performing is some condescending teasing lol.

Admittedly I can be kind of cruel. One example being when I edged and denied my partner for weeks and on the final day edged them for over an hour then ruined their orgasm. Wasn’t a punishment or anything, I just thought it’d be fun. To be fair, I was very sweet to them before, after, and during.

My partner is much meaner verbally, and yes, more of a sadist. I’m very easily flustered when it comes to anything sexual (save for when I’m domming) and they make me admit what I want. They like to push me to tears for their pleasure and see how far I can go until I break (physically, mentally, etc). But they also make it clear that they’re not doing anything I don’t want which kinda fucks with my head a little haha. They work very intensely in the moment whereas I tend to draw things out (see above example).

There’s definitely a contrast, and obviously there’s much more nuance than I can cover here, but I think we compliment each other pretty well!

Thank you for asking! This question was fun, I love talking about my dynamic :)

[crushedbloodorange]

10 + 92?

10. What is the hottest thing someone has ever done with you in bed? 

That’s tough. I’d say probably one of the times my dom blindfolded and cuffed me to the bed while they were doing work at their desk and would come over and play with me sporadically. That or one of the times they made me pass out from overstimulating me. Idk there’s a lot to choose from lol

92. Have you ever fucked in public? Where was it? Did you get caught?

Yes multiple times. Once was with my partner in the closet at our old job. We were almost caught by one of our coworkers at the time but luckily we got away with it 😅

Thank you very much for the ask :)

[crushedbloodorange]

If u were to do some sorta priest roleplay in the bedroom what would it look like?

Ooo I like this question. Depends on the vibe honestly!

My partner would definitely be the priest, but if I’m feeling more dominant they’d be very pious and committed to upholding their vows of celibacy and other such things. I’d slowly tease and crack away at them with all of the little things I know make them hungry for me, until they’re all but begging for me to touch them. A good priest would never beg for such things and I wouldn’t make them, buuut I’d probably encourage them to say little prayers under their breath. Prayers for God to forgive them, to stop these lustful feelings from coming back, to make them feel as good as possible while they last. I’d recite along with them, slowly guiding them to the edge until they inevitably spill over, pleading for forgiveness as they ride the wave. And of course I’d make them lick up their mess afterwards, after all they can’t waste what’s holy 😇

If I was feeling more submissive, I’d definitely be on my knees in front of them begging for them to cleanse me, forgive me for some sin or wrongdoing. Most likely for trying to tempt them and make them stumble on their righteous path. They’re a touch more sadistic than me so I can see them making me memorize scripture (which they know I’m terrible at). They’d say they know how to deal with sluts like me, hitting my knuckles with a ruler whenever I’d make a mistake. I can’t say for sure of course because we dom very differently, but that’s what I’d hope for haha.

Whewww I apologize if this is more detail than you wanted, I got a bit carried away 😅

Thank you very much for the question love it was a lot of fun <3

[aloyartz8new]

do you know what Crashbox is? if you do, who's your favorite character(s)?

My fav characters are Lens Mcracken, the Ears from Ear We Are, and the valley girl narrator from Paige and Sage.

sadly I don't know it but it sounds cool

[linecrosser]

Hi, i used to follow in yr tmnt phase a few years ago (amazing comics btww) i was wondering, what made u delete yr Devianart? And step back from the fandom. Hope the question wasn't to personal, and hope yr doing great! Love yr style for ever and ever (thk for being an inspiration)

Hi there!

I am glad you enjoyed my comics from back in the days! I remember the fun I had creating those.

Time flies, it's been almost a decade since I "exit stage left" out of the fandom.

I simply lost interest. And with all the new shows and reboots, it was too fast to follow and catch up for me, and I just stayed behind (I still cherrish the 2k3-version, good memories).

I nuked dA because their stand on AI irked me, and I saw no reason in keeping an account there. Cleaned up after myself, so to speak.

Life is still full of fandom and friends and fun for me, so I am doing well!

[crushedbloodorange]

trans men?

Yes please. Love em.

[crushedbloodorange]

How would u describe u and ur partner’s sexuality and gender?

Very complicated.

I identified as a lesbian for a very long time before I met my partner, so I still resonate with lesbianism a lot, but since being with my partner (who is nonbinary) I’ve shifted more towards pansexuality. However, I call myself bisexual because I just like how it sounds better lmao.

Gender-wise I’m a mostly cis girl, there’s some gender fluidity/envy in there somewhere but I don’t think about it haha. I always feel feminine, but in my ideal world my gender is the wind in the trees and the water in the streams (I’m not the best with labels if you couldn’t tell).

My partner is gender-neutral nonbinary in the sense that they really couldn’t care less how people perceive them or what pronouns others use for them, which is why I’m very comfortable calling him/her/them my girlfriend/boyfriend/partner. I mostly use “them” and “partner” on here to avoid confusing others 😅

Thanks so much for asking! This one was fun :)