#aterspec

[neopronouns]

flag id: three flags with 9 stripes. the top flag's stripes are faded pink, light cool pink, pale indigo, faded teal, pale green, faded orange, pale indigo, light cool pink, and faded pink. the bottom left flag's stripes are faded pink, light cool pink, pale indigo, dark dull indigo, pale green, faded blue, pale indigo, light cool pink, and faded pink. the bottom right flag's stripes are faded pink, light cool pink, pale indigo, faded sky blue, pale yellow-green, faded warm purple, pale indigo, light cool pink, and faded pink. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

caring atertiary caring aemotional | caring aphysical

caring ater(tiary/spec): a loveless ater(tiary/spec) person who cares about others rather than or in place of loving them

caring aemo(tional/spec): a loveless aemo(tional/spec) person who cares about others rather than or in place of loving them

caring aphys(ical/spec): a loveless aemo(tional/spec) person who cares about others rather than or in place of loving them

[pt: caring ater(tiary/spec): a loveless ater(tiary/spec) person who cares about others rather than or in place of loving them

caring aemo(tional/spec): a loveless aemo(tional/spec) person who cares about others rather than or in place of loving them

caring aphys(ical/spec): a loveless aemo(tional/spec) person who cares about others rather than or in place of loving them. end pt]

more caring flags! based on the loveless atertiary, loveless aemotional, and loveless aphysical flags.

tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks, @maggore, @dragonpride17, @orientation-archive

dni link

[coinedbank]

307: tertiary-in-nature (terin)

[PT: 307: tertiary-in-nature (terin) /end PT]

DEFINITION ⦂⠀An attraction that is considered "tertiary-in-nature", in feeling, activity, social perception, or similar attributes for it to be considered "tertiary" whether it is felt allotertiary, or in a distinctly ater-spec way.

ADDITIONAL ⦂⠀Coined on the 25th of October, 2025.

TAGGING ⦂⠀@c1rcus-of-silliness @in-nature-archive @near-nia-river @orientation-archive @radiomogai

[i-suggest-afam]

I nearly let this blog die, but I’m going to have to revive it if I want to stay calm and semi-sane (some of that’s a lost cause but I can keep the rest) (don’t worry I’m allowed to make that joke)

The season of love and family is here! Great, right? /s

We (afamilials and especially apothifamilials) need to invent a winter holiday of our own. Centered around “family is not the most important thing, not everyone has families worth celebrating, and a family being “worth celebrating”/non-abusive doesn’t oblige you to celebrate them”. And also around dessert because I’m hungry right now for some reason.

[mogai-headcanons]

icon id: 16 icons in 8 pairs. in each pair, both icons have the listed flags in order in the background and the left icon has an image of the listed character with a white outline and a black shadow. end id.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

Reagan Ridley from Inside Job is an aterspec arospec allorospec bi demijuxera casswoman trans man who uses she/her, they/them, and he/him pronouns!

His boyfriend Ron Staedtler is a bi kenoboy who uses he/him and they/them pronouns!

Brett Hand is a romance-indifferent sex-favorable straight aroallospec aroacespec aroallace man who uses he/him pronouns!

Gigi Thompson is a bi woman who uses she/her pronouns!

Andre Lee is an aroallo pansexual nonbinary man who uses they/them, he/him, and any neopronouns!

Glenn Dolphman is biflux and uses he/him pronouns, and he's considering using neopronouns!

Myc Cellium is a queer maverique being who uses they/them and it/its pronouns!

J.R. Scheimpough is a transhet man who uses he/him or no pronouns!

dni link

[dragonstrinkets]

pride paws set 2, aspec labels (spectrums edition)

aspec 1 | aspec 2 | aspec 3 acespec | arospec 1 | arospec 2 aquaspec | aterspec | afamspec aplspec 1 | aplspec 2 | aplspec 3 anaespec | asenspec | analtspec aphyspec | asocspec | aemospec

f2u credit appreciated but not necessary.

pride paw template by @paw-pride

[fleabittenflags]

[Image Description: A flag with five, equal width stripes. From top to bottom they are black, medium blue, light yellow, medium orange, and dark magenta. End ID.]

An alternate atertiary (link) flag I designed, loosely based on the aromantic/asexual flags and the colors of this (link) tertiary attraction flag. Not meant to replace the original, this was made out of personal preference.

This flag is for anyone on the atertiary spectrum, not only strictly atertiary folks.

[lifea16]

Sexuality Update:-

I now identify as AroAce and NebulaTertiary :3

(For clarity since if this is already coined it's very rare, when I mean Nebulatertiary, I mean that I am unsure whether I experience tertiary attraction (platonic, familial, etc..), in a manner related to my Neurodivergence)

[tertiary-culture-archive]

Tertiary attraction culture is being ater-spec (on the atertiary spectrum) and so the attraction you do experience is like… what is going on