Feb 28, 2025
oh btw this is your unfriendly and very aggressive reminder;
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oh btw this is your unfriendly and very aggressive reminder;
flag id: two flags with 6 stripes. the left flag's stripes are very dark indigo, dark teal, green, light yellow-green, white, bright yellow, and gold. the right flag's stripes are very dark indigo, dark cool purple, purple, light warm purple, white, bright red, and medium dark red. end id.
banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.
aroalloauto | alloaceauto
aroalloauto/alloaroauto/autoaroallo/autoalloaro: being both autoaromantic and allo-autosexual
alloaceauto/autoalloace: being both autoasexual and allo-autoromantic
[pt: aroalloauto/alloaroauto/autoaroallo/autoalloaro: being both autoaromantic and allo-autosexual
alloaceauto/autoalloace: being both autoasexual and allo-autoromantic. end pt]
aroalloauto for anon, plus alloaceauto to go with it! these use colors from the autoaromantic/autoasexual, alloaro, and alloace flags.
tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks, @maggore, @dragonpride17, @orientation-archive
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An aroallo canon event is walking into a space designated as friendly and safe to "all of the aspectrum" [awesome, sounds good, I like being able to talk to people about issues that affect all of us] and realizing very quickly that you are not included in "all". It's the constant need to stick up for yourself in what is supposed to be a safe space that burns aroallos out of your community spaces. If you have a stark lack of aroallos in an all-inclusive zone, ask yourself if the environment is actually safe and welcoming, or if they are expected to constantly be their own advocate with no safety net. It's immensely common and underdiscussed.
Are you sticking up for the aroallos around you? Are you asking how you can be better? Are you expecting to rely on being "called out" rather than learning for yourself? Do you know what aroallophobia looks like? What sex negativity actually is? Please don't let aroallos fade away into the background of so many boundaries crossed and lines drawn that they have to go. We need bridges between the community now more than ever, and that means making it a two way street on each one.
Aros/arospecs of Tumblr, suggest some songs to me that you find aro-coded, or [insert] attraction-coded, and I'll see if I can add it to my Spotify aromantic playlist!
Here's the link to my playlist to check out what I already have, though it's kind of long as shit: A Gift From A Loveless Something
I dreamt that there were several memes hung outside a thrift store (on the door), and one of them said that sex had to be with someone you love and all, and was like "sorry, that's just facts :D", and there was a lot of empty space, so I proceeded to write on the white paper about how that's not true, and first of all mentioned aromantic people, and then I considered posting about the fact that I did it and how much of a good ally I am (I'm personally apothiaroace), and like, yeah, turns out it was a dream, but you're welcome for me being such a good ally, aroallos 😎.
[image description: A bamboo embroidery hoop sitting on a blue microfibre blanket. The hoop is filled with cream cloth featuring a garland of assorted flowers and leaves around the centre-positioned text "be kind". The text is written in a loose, handdrawn type and backstitched in green. The leaves and stems are stitched in green, aqua or light blue, and feature a variety of black, chain, split, straight and satin stitches. The flowers are stitched in white, gold, yellow and dark pink, and feature a variety of chain, satin, straight, woven wheel and god's eye stitches. Small seed beads in pink, gold and aqua fill the centres of some flowers.]
This embroidery piece uses colours from @neopronouns's allosexual aromantic-spectrum flag. I did make some changes, though: the brighter pink in the original flag design clashed with my usual thread choices for aro green and allo-aro yellow and gold, so I chose a darker magenta instead.
Folks who want to learn about the kit I used and the woes of cheap embroidery floss can find my original Aro Worlds post in the source link.
Something possessed me to draw an AroAllo ENA.
icon id: 16 icons in 8 pairs. in each pair, both icons have the listed flags in order in the background and the left icon has an image of the listed character with a white outline and a black shadow. end id.
banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.
Reagan Ridley from Inside Job is an aterspec arospec allorospec bi demijuxera casswoman trans man who uses she/her, they/them, and he/him pronouns!
His boyfriend Ron Staedtler is a bi kenoboy who uses he/him and they/them pronouns!
Brett Hand is a romance-indifferent sex-favorable straight aroallospec aroacespec aroallace man who uses he/him pronouns!
Gigi Thompson is a bi woman who uses she/her pronouns!
Andre Lee is an aroallo pansexual nonbinary man who uses they/them, he/him, and any neopronouns!
Glenn Dolphman is biflux and uses he/him pronouns, and he's considering using neopronouns!
Myc Cellium is a queer maverique being who uses they/them and it/its pronouns!
J.R. Scheimpough is a transhet man who uses he/him or no pronouns!
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