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Autism in Individuals Assigned Female at Birth (AFAB)

Autism in individuals assigned female at birth (AFAB)—including women, girls, non-binary, and trans-masculine individuals—is frequently underdiagnosed. Research reveals that as many as 80% of autistic AFAB individuals remain undiagnosed by age 18. Their symptoms often manifest differently than those seen in individuals assigned male at birth (AMAB), leading to delayed or missed diagnoses.

Recognizing the distinct signs of autism in AFAB individuals and offering appropriate support is crucial. This topic is explored in depth in Autism in Girls: Why Signs of Neurodivergence Are Overlooked by Karen Saporito, PhD, published by ADDitude Magazine, which informed this newsletter.

Autism in AFAB Individuals

Desire for Social Connection: AFAB individuals with autism frequently have a strong desire to build social connections. In order to navigate social spaces, they may engage in masking—adopting neurotypical behaviors to blend in—which, while making their challenges less apparent, can be mentally exhausting. Furthermore, many experience heightened rejection sensitivity, which can intensify the emotional impact of social interactions.

Consequences of Masking: Masking can contribute to increased anxiety, diminished self-esteem, and challenges in forming authentic relationships. Additionally, it can complicate clinical evaluations, leading to delays in diagnosis and access to support and resources.

Restricted and Repetitive Behaviors: AFAB individuals may engage in repetitive behaviors in more subtle ways, such as finger tapping or hair twirling, compared to AMAB individuals. Their special interests may also be more socially conventional, such as a focus on animals or celebrities, rather than the more overt fixations often observed in AMAB individuals.

Myths About Autism

To effectively identify autism in AFAB individuals, it’s crucial to understand the myths surrounding it. Below is a list of common myths and the corresponding truths, as outlined by Dr. Saporito:

Supporting Neurodivergent AFAB Individuals

Early Detection: Identifying autism early is essential for providing tailored support and minimizing feelings of shame or uncertainty.

Routine & Structure: Consistent routines help alleviate anxiety and support smoother transitions.

Support Emotional Regulation: Teaching coping techniques like mindfulness, healthy stimming, and breathing exercises enable better management of emotional challenges.

Adopt a Neurodiversity-Affirming Approach: Celebrating the strengths of neurodivergent individuals fosters self-confidence, empowers self-advocacy, and encourages a positive sense of identity.

I provide formal assessments for Autism and ADHD for individuals ages 8-48 in California, both in-person and online (my online assessment option is for ages 18+). For more information, and to check your PPO insurance reimbursement benefits with the Mentaya tool, please visit my website.

I also encourage you to explore these tools to promote your well-being:

Empowerment Through Understanding Modules: Dive deeper into ADHD and Autism with this online course to improve self-awareness, self-advocacy, and personal growth. Learn more here.

AuDHD Strong App: A helpful app for neurodivergent individuals with tools for organization, task management, and self-care. Download it today from the App Store or the Google Play Store!

Faces of Health App: This app offers valuable mental health and well-being resources. Download it today from the App Store or the Google Play Store!

For more valuable insights, I encourage you to explore my blog at https://drblied.com/blog/. For a selection of wellness resources, please visit the resources page on my website at https://drblied.com/resources/.

Reference

Saporito, K. (2025). Autism in girls: Why signs of neurodivergence are overlooked. ADDitude Magazine. https://www.additudemag.com/autism-in-girls/?ecd=wnl_additude_250123_cons_adhd_treatment&goal=0_d9446392d6-0d1a445a20-301885002

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Therapist Reacts to LILO & STITCH with guest Rebecca Parham

Cinema Therapy What does your chosen family look like? Do you resonate with Lilo? Licensed therapist Jonathan Decker, filmmaker Alan Seawright, and guest Rebecca Parham of @LetMeExplainStudios are reacting to the beloved Lilo and Stitch. It is Rebecca’s favorite movie, and it’s admired by so many for its portrayal of neurodivergent and autistic people. They discuss how Lilo’s neurodivergence…

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Dear Journal,

I’m not really sure how to begin, but maybe that’s the point. I’ve always had words swirling in my head, but when I try to speak them, they tangle. Writing feels safer, like I can lay things down without being interrupted or misunderstood.

This journal isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being real. Some days it might be a ramble, other days a memory, and maybe sometimes just a single line that says more than a whole page could.

Right now, it feels a little vulnerable, almost like I’m opening a window in the middle of the night and letting the cool air in. But maybe that’s what I need—to let myself breathe, to let the words exist outside of me.

Until next time,

Beth 🌙

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Challenging the Myth: Autistic People and the Truth About Sarcasm

Why do so many think autistic people don't understand sarcasm? I'm literally fluent in it. Maybe stop assuming we're all the same robot.

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Why Neurodivergent Voices Are Quietly Redefining Online Culture in 2025

The internet in 2025 isn’t just shaped by influencers, brands, or AI-generated content. It’s increasingly being built by a growing, fiercely creative, and often overlooked community: neurodivergent creators.

From ADHD-fueled meme pages to beautifully raw Medium essays about autism, anxiety, and sensory processing, these creators are reshaping how the internet sounds, looks, and feels — and their impact has never been louder or more important.

Let’s dive into why this community is leading some of the internet’s most authentic and emotionally resonant trends.

Who Are Neurodivergent Creators?

Neurodivergent creators are people whose brains work differently from what’s considered “typical.” This includes those with:

ADHD

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)

Dyslexia

OCD

Anxiety disorders and more

Online, these voices have become some of the most honest, creative, and original contributors to internet culture.

Why They’re Reshaping the Internet Now

Tumblr & Medium Revival: These platforms remain safe havens for long-form storytelling and niche communities.

Relatable, Raw Content: Neurodivergent creators openly share experiences of overstimulation, hyperfocus, social anxiety, and sensory joy — building tight, loyal followings.

Meme Culture: ADHD meme accounts and autism-friendly humor pages are some of the most reshared spaces in 2025.

Inclusive AI Tools: New tools help neurodivergent folks manage focus, emotional tracking, and sensory-friendly content creation.

What’s Changing Because of Them

 The rise of unfiltered, authentic content More acceptance of stimming, info-dumping, and non-linear storytelling Communities built on empathy, shared neurodivergent experiences, and creative expression Content designed for sensory safety: muted colors, captioned videos, slow scrolling blogs

Their unique way of seeing and processing the world is creating a more human, imperfect, and emotionally generous internet culture.

Final Thought

In 2025, neurodivergent creators aren’t a niche, they’re trendsetters.

They’re shaping internet humor, digital self-care, online storytelling, and advocacy spaces in ways neurotypical creators simply haven’t. And as digital spaces grow more inclusive, their influence will only expand.

If you haven’t followed one of these creators yet, trust me, you’re missing out.

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💬 Starting secondary school is a big step – especially for autistic children navigating new social settings. One dad shares his hopes and concerns as his high-achieving, autistic son prepares for a new chapter — and a new chance at friendship.

💙 A heartfelt party invite reminded them both: he is seen. He is wanted. With the right support, understanding, and school prep, every child can thrive — without changing who they are. 🌟

🔗 Read the full story and expert tips on preparing your autistic child for secondary school success.

Preparing an Autistic Child for Secondary School: Tips for Social Transition & Support

With secondary school fast approaching, many parents feel anxious—especially those whose autistic children have been invited to their first

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Redefining Our Reality: The Power of Authentic Language

Words shape worlds. Never underestimate their power—use "autistic burnout," not "tired."

Our language reflects our truth. Society demands we conform to its language, but we have the power to redefine it to honor our authentic experiences.

We are not just correcting; we are reclaiming. Every time we name our truth, we shatter stereotypes. Words become swords in a fight for respect.

Let’s weave a tapestry of language that's as diverse as we are. Speak up. Share stories. Our voices will not be lost. The revolution of words is just beginning.

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Attention, friends! If you’re autistic, how do you prefer to communicate your needs? We’re creating a supportive space where everyone's voice matters. Share your tips for clearer conversations and let’s empower each other! Your insights could help someone feel understood today. Join the discussion—don’t miss out!