I’m just here to once again to remind everyone, that even though we as fans are devastated by what Avid and Marm have done, remember: We cannot pressure anyone into opening up about this situation. This is a traumatic and deeply personal experience for numerous people and they have every right to keep it private or even public if they so do desire. Real life people with complex relationships, emotions and lives outside of creating videos and streaming are all going through this and we as viewers, must respect if they stay silent. Do not spam streams, chats or videos asking what happened. Forcing someone to speak out to thousands of people about situations that are deeply traumatic is not healthy nor is it good. The victims can choose whether they want to talk about the Avid and Marm situation, if they choose to speak out or stay silent, we have to respect them for that.
This isn’t a dig at anyone by the way, I just want to make an reminder to everyone that we have to respect each person’s boundaries and privacy and that we have to accept, some people aren’t going to talk about it or won’t talk about it for maybe even months.
Also something else, I’ve been in the MCYT community since 2020 and I’m just going to say this, NOT EVERY MCYTER IS BAD. The majority are amazing people and content creators and we should 100% support them. Bad people exist on the internet and in real life, however so do good people. There are genuinely amazing individuals who just want to share their art and stories with us and that is amazing. Idk I just wanted to remind people of this.
Point is: don’t be parasocial, accept boundaries and accept any information we get. Praying for everyone involved in this situation, hope they can find closure <3
