#bathroom denial

[yapoholics-anonymous]

Honestly i just want gender neutral bathrooms where each stall is basically just a closet with a toilet. The more people in an area, the less likely crime is to happen

That seems to be the trend I am seeing more and more. Multi-stall bathrooms are made for places that hold lots of people, yet I still see the need for lots of stalls in a relatively small area.

I went a new building recently with a multi-stall gender neutral bathroom. it was an open, well lit space that had multiple self contained stalls where the sinks were outside. It seems like a somewhat decent compromise, only women are still less likely to be able to use the facilities at later times in the day to preserve their own safety.

I also, however, saw a post today (if you scroll on my weblogs from today you'll find it --look for the mtf mermaid) where there were three changing rooms (male, female, and gender neutral), yet a mtf demanded to use the female changing room and was suing because he was not being allowed to do so. Even offering alternatives doesn't necessarily get to the root issue: the male entitlement and narcissism of trans women wanting to force others (women) to comply while they life out their fetish.

[restroom-door-lock]

I have a numbers and statistics fetish. Let’s measure your bladder capacity by making you drink and drink until you can’t hold it anymore and make you pee in a beaker like you’re being tested for drugs. Would it be less embarrassing for you if I had scrubs and a lab coat on or more? What if we had to do lots and lots of trials to make sure we find the absolute most you can possibly contain? What if I made you hold until it hurt and you were scared you might literally burst a seam?

[nikowh0rex]

when your desperate and your sitting on their lap legs spread unable to hold yourself and they run their hands along your thighs and occasionally across your bladder rubbing it and pushing down laughing at the way your body quivers and the gasps and moans you make trying to hold it it

[princepastel]

people with ADHD are so fun to do omo stuff with…

they won’t even realize they they have to piss until they have to go so bad that even waiting five minutes wouldn’t even cut it close. they’ll be so preoccupied, but you’ll see the signs. the way they start bouncing their leg, maybe even crossing them together, their staggered breath, their hasty movements, the way they start fidgeting with their pants. it’s all so fucking obvious and it doesn’t even register to them. they’ll keep drinking their energy drink (my love is addicted to caffeine) or drinking their water and it won’t even cross their mind that that their bladder is so desperately full of piss. oh, and when they do notice? don’t even get me started. their wide eyes, their sudden quick glances, looking for a restroom, looking for relief. their wincing, their whimpers, it’s all so cute. i always act sympathetic, but god i just want to tie them to a chair, legs spread wide, and teasing them until they lose control, leaking all over themselves in between sobs. all of this? so suddenly too. “i can’t believe you didn’t notice love. you’re a full grown adult. don’t you know how fucking pathetic you look? your pants are drenched and all you can do is cry. you beautiful, pathetic little toy.”

[burstingsblog]

Making a sub choose between being able to cum and being able to empty their bladder is the hottest thing.

Make them edge every day for a week (or longer), so they're a desperate, needy mess by play day.

Then lock the bathroom before they wake up on play day. Keep that bladder nice and full on play day. Keep plying them with drinks, so it keeps getting fuller, until the evening when they're bursting and begging.

Once they start begging to pee, have them lay naked on the bed, and spend an hour or two teasing and edging them, until both of their needs are at their peak.

That's when you give them their choice.. piss, or cum. Only one.

But here's the part that doesn't get talked about enough:

Consequences of their decision.

Ok, so you chose to piss. Probably a good idea since you look like you're about to wet yourself any second. But you're going to spend the next 24 hours being teased and edged, with only enough breaks to eat, sleep, and piss in between. You might get to cum tomorrow night. Or you might have to just wait until we play again next weekend...

OR

Ok, so you chose to cum. I can see why, you're so needy you can't even form a coherent sentence. But I hope you didn't think you were going to get to cum and then just hold it for an hour or two until you wet yourself and let that be the end of it. No. From now until bedtime tomorrow night, you're holding. If I decide it looks like you really can't hold it anymore, I'll let you piss for 5 seconds. Just enough to keep the dam from breaking. Then you'll cut it off, pull your pants back up, and we're going back out. Yes, we're going to be in public. Did you think I would just let you stay home so you can have as many "accidents" as you want?

If you *DO* have an accident, I'm just going to have you drink enough to fill right back up. So don't even think about it.

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Let each consequence be enough torture that they want to choose the other next time, every time.

[omorashi-butch]

I have had the reoccurring fantasy to hump someone's leg to "help hold it" and I got to do it on Friday😭 My dom had me so fucking desperate, making me finish an assignment before going to the bathroom. Then, we started making out and they let me grind against their knee for a while until I came. I had to go SO bad by the end of it, but I didn't want to go in my bed, so they helped me into the shower and held me up while I pissed myself 😭😭😭

[sirsimic]

Diapers are for cozy, casual afternoons when you don't want to stop playing video games to use the bathroom.

Pullups are for when you're desperate to pee and begging to use the bathroom, but getting denied.

[pinetr3om]

What about, having your partner desperate, making them drink lots of water, then giving them a strap to fuck you/your thighs/a pillow, whatever you want with it.

It's the only distraction they have, but let's say they're afab, there's no way to grab yourself with the strap, it's not easy, plus they need their hands to help themselves move properly, so they're left there, having to keep moving, unable to hold themselves.

And let's say they're amab, usualy the distraction would be enough to keep holding, but now, they're not feeling the pressure on them because it's the strap and not their dick. And you can't hold yourself either.

Either way, you make them go again and again until you're satisfied, and that means until they end up pissing themselves