#being insecure

[kalderon]

I love Fable and I have so many thoughts and head-canons related to my heroes and the series. I want to share them and fan art but I'm unsure if anyone else in the fandom would be interested. I guess I just want to know if I should share or not?

[trion-revolutionary]

I did another outline for Evening and it looks like there will be a chapter 5. Chapter 4 was going to be way too long and it kinda has a good cut off point.

I've been worried that people may be losing interest and I think that is bumming my mood a bit. It won't slow up the release of pages. I have two unpublished pages done. I hope it isn't the story that is a problem.

[lwishunicornswerereal-blog]

People like to point out the things in others that they are insecure about in themselves.

Me 

[skyartemis]

irrational fear

I think we all have this irrational fear of being abandoned 

of being neglected 

or being a part of the past 

no longer called upon or called to 

no longer tended or needed 

a bitter smile makes its way to my face 

my heart constricts itself and I choke on the air 

ah so this is how it feels, my mind narrates 

[thejoshuayukiah]

I struggle with my insecurities in life, and oftentimes, I will get really triggered and I will lash out, or be moody, or not be as good of a friend as I want to be. And trust me, my friends notice. It’s hard for me to control, but I want to be better … I know I’m not the only person who struggles with that, so here are a few things that I am going to work on, and maybe they can also help you tone down insecurities and stop them from spilling over into your friendships when they arise:

1. Pause Before Reacting

When you feel that urge to lash out, try to pause—even 5–10 seconds. Ask yourself: Am I upset at them, or am I upset at my fear/insecurity? Naming it for yourself gives you a buffer.

2. Share, Don’t Project

Instead of saying something sharp (like “Do you even care about me?”), try expressing it vulnerably: “I’m feeling a little insecure right now, and I know it’s not about you, but I just need some reassurance.” That way, you invite them to support you rather than defend themselves.

3. Strengthen Your Inner Anchor

Work on self-worth outside of friendships—journaling, affirmations, therapy, or even small self-promises you keep. When you build trust in yourself, you rely less on others for validation.

4. Identify Your Triggers

Notice patterns: Do you feel most insecure when ignored, when plans change, when someone pulls back? Naming those triggers helps you prepare and recognize: This is my pattern, not proof my friend doesn’t care.

5. Repair When You Slip Up

No one is perfect—you will slip. What matters is saying: “Hey, I realize I lashed out earlier, and that wasn’t fair to you. I’m working on it.” That goes a long way in showing you’re committed to being a better friend.

6. Build Self-Soothing Habits

When the anxiety spikes, instead of messaging or reacting right away, have a grounding ritual—go for a short walk, write your feelings down, or even text yourself what you wanted to say. Often the intensity passes.

A helpful reminder: your insecurities don’t make you unworthy of love or friendship. They just need gentler handling. And the more you practice catching them, the less power they’ll have over you. I’m going to continue to work on things as I go on. We got this.

[angelthecat153]

if you ever felt insecure

Emma

she would literally tell you to never say those things about yourself

Abi

she would tell you that you're beautiful the way you are

Dylan

bruh this man will get pissed off when you feel insecure he will literally be kind of a drama queen about it

Jacob

same as Dylan except he will be an actual drama queen about it

Laura

she will over react and tell you to never say those things

Kaitlyn

she will shake her head and tell you not to worry because later you 2 will have a cuddle session when you 2 are alone

Max

literally doesn't know how to react

Ryan

bruh this man will say " the F y/n don't say that about yourself

Nick

he will just hug you

[iwishkrisjennerwasmymom]

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[anallemeinegringos]

I am so afraid, just don't hate me, I'm begging you.