Me after rereading st Paul’s authentic epistles after years of blaming him for homophobia and misogyny in the church (I have since then educated myself on the sociocultural context of the time period he was writing in):
Like this dude was friends with multiple women whom he gave tremendous respect to, while highlighting how important they were within the growing Jesus movement (see: Junia, whom he calls "outstanding among the apostles", deacon Phoebe, church leader Chloe, Prisca- who might’ve been the author of the book of hebrews - etc.) He told men in a society in which women were viewed as objects "of course your wife is your property 🥰 but as her husband, you are *her* property as well!" And he tried to fix the double standard of wives being considered unfaithful if they slept with someone else vs husbands being able to bang as many people as they wanted (regardless of how the missus felt about it) by calling male cheaters "sexually immoral". He ALSO nearly threw hands with Peter when he expressed hesitation at eating with non Jews (inclusive king). He criticized the Roman empire and challenged Caesar’s legitimacy by claiming Christ as Lord. And ofc came up with the absolute banger of a line that is "There is no longer Jew or Greek; there is no longer slave or free; there is no longer male and female, for all of you are one in Christ Jesus".
I am no longer a Paul hater, but now a Paul defender.













