I found out the other day that my ex started dating someone else a while ado. Surprisingly, I wasn't really upset at all, I have a boyfriend who I truthfully love and adore. But what bothered me was that before my boyfriend and I became official my ex guilt tripped the hell out of me for talking to someone so soon after our break up. To be honest, I am pretty sure that relationship was over well before we called it quits officially. But why would you make someone feel so bad for being happy with someone else, when you're literally doing the same thing.
I truly hope that he's happy, but it was extremely that he did that to me. It's hypocritical and extremely unfair.
It goes back to the whole think about "remove the beam from your own eye, and then you will see clearly enough to remove the speck from your friend's eye". He had no room to talk but he felt the need to make me feel bad for feeling happy for the first time in a good month or so.
He said he wanted to remain friends, but after I learned that I highly doubt that will ever happen.