BIGBANG having to deal with your ex a lot because you have a kid together
Anonymous Requested: (Im not sure if requests are open? Please, ignore if close :) Can i request headcanons for bigbang to having to deal with s/o's ex husband pretty often because s/o has a kid with him. (its sort of inspired by exo hcs about parent s/o, but with more drama?)
A/N: Ahhh the angst :(((( I took this more in the direction that your ex wasn’t the greatest husband, so I hope that’s what you wanted. I’m sorry it took me so long to get this done dear, I hope you like it!! - Admin Ruby
doesn’t even matter if they were that bad
Jiyong. does. not. like. them.
very protective of your child
so gets angry when your ex spends time with them
“they already had their chance.”
he WILL be very sarcastic to your ex though
and you have had to break them out of a fight before
Jiyong apologized and promised to be more rational about the situation
doesn’t talk about it a lot but you can tell how torn it makes him
he finds it hard to commit to a relationship
so being with you and your child is a massive step for him
and having your ex interfere can make it really hard for Seunghyun
though he won’t hesitate to throw shade if your ex says anything he doesn’t like
grows more protective of you and your child as time goes on
and realizes he doesn’t want to lose you
so he’ll start acting more like a father figure
and despite having a confusing and emotional situation
everything kind of works out
REALLY loves you and your child
and is constantly worried you’ll get back with your ex
or that your child won’t accept him as a dad
so makes sure to spend as much time as possible with you both
gets really sad when your child is out with your ex
tries not to talk to your ex much
but if caught in a conversation he won’t hesitate to talk about how much he loves you and your child
it’s not even to make your ex mad tbh
Daesung more so says it to convince himself that he’s the one with you
so he shouldn’t be worried
because everything will work out
100% the calmest in the situation
doesn’t mean he likes it though
but he does understand that your child is your ex’s too, and he can’t deny that
he treats your child as his own
and is constantly bonding with them
more focused on being a family with you than anything else
tries not to think of your ex much
just kind of ignores them
doesn’t really talk to them
Youngbae thinks it’s a waste of breath
and would rather spend his time strengthing his relationship with you and your child
because that’s most important to him
