#birthdad

[thyming]

Made this for my boyfriend's birthday tomorrow! 🥺🌸

[sweetlittledaisy7]

Birth Dads

I hardly hear anything about birth dads. Why? People mention and praise birth moms but not dads

[wolf-skins]

birthdad replied to your post: people complaining about tumblr’s new adult...

has it not taken effect yet? bc i still have so many p/rn bot blogs following me >:/

nah, supposedly it’s not going into effect until dec 17, which is another reason why people’s posts at the moment are annoying me.

anyways, my complaint w people’s bitching isn’t really about p/rn bots (although some of the info about that too is irritating) but at their ignorance of how a website this big is run dsffksljlkjsf

but you’re right, i hope that whatever happens DOES fuck up the whole p/rn bot problem

[confessionsofbirthmothers]

There has been a group created for adoptees by adoptees who share a unique experience.  It is open to adoptees who have searched for their birth parents and found that one or both of them have died.  Please share so any adoptee who needs it can find some support from those who truly understand.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/2087515868138323/

[queer-starling]

birthdad replied to your post “astraeiia replied to your post “astraeiia replied to your post ...”

why'd u hav to post this gif im gay

fvgtrhyjnygrtbefrv i won’t do it again am sorry 

[captain-habit]

birthdad replied to your post “I don’t know if any of you are fans of Linkin Park. but the last two...”

I liked heavy :c

Maybe if it were anything but Linkin Park doing it. Maybe. 

It could be a side group or Chester solo but it sounds nothing like Linkin Park.

It’s just these are literally the first songs that have come from them that just don’t sit well with me at all. 

[liikuinpoistastaurlistamoro]

birthdad replied to your post “[[MOR] ok so my therapist just told me she has had bpd when she was...”

she definitely didn't have it. you can't cure a personality disorder. it shapes every facet of your personality like treatment helps of course but it doesnt just....poof go away. theres nothing u need to be cured of you just need to be equipped with the tools to handle it. if u havent tried dbt i highly recommend that im going to try it as well

birthdad replied to your post “[[MOR] ok so my therapist just told me she has had bpd when she was...”

telling u bpd can be cured and trivializing your problems like that is kinda shitty?? Also literally all u hav to do is google bpd and it straight says in the desc "CANT BE CURED" so she doesnt kno what shes talkin about?? wow im mad

thank u so much for replying it makes me feel little more validated !!!! and i agree with you. every goddamn site ive read about bpd says that u cant be cured u can just make the symptoms “lesser” etc and i truly believe that. while i have these thoughts and people around me telling me that im not faking this and she didnt have bpd, but maybe something else, i still feel so incredibly bad abt it ??? like i hate pd’s so much but im nothing without them so.. i dont even know, everything is so weird rn. but i rly appreciate u for taking time and answering so well. youre such a sweet person nd ily <3 ;;

[sweetlittledaisy7]

I'm glad they don't want to seek out or ask about their birth family.

So it's Christmas winter break. Thank God. First semester of college was hell. High school doesn't prep you for college. I've been at home sleeping and eating and catching up with old friends.

Recently, at church I heard something my mom said. She loves to talk to people. She told a woman at church my brother and I have no interest in our birth family, don't talk or think about them and we are happy with them. She thought since we're older and legally adults we would run off or seek out our birth family. She is relieved we haven't. She was worried for nothing. She said we're happy. If only my mom knew the truth. I basically went into the bathroom and cried. I don't talk about my birth family to anyone. Especially my parents. I do think about my birth family. I wonder what my birth dad looks like. Could he be the man in the store or sitting next to me? My birth mom, I secretly contacted her years ago behind my parents back. I haven't contacted her since. I might not talk about them or ask about them to my parents but I do think about birth parents. I think about my birth family. I do wonder about them. My mom feeling relieved I haven't asked or seek out my birth family makes me feel like crap. It's like she doesn't understand how I feel. What if I did run off? Would she even want me anymore? Would she turn me away? Would my parents be my parents? Would they be mad? I think they would be.