Confession as a DID system I will always feel unsafe around anti endos because they are constantly looking for a reason to grill people for being 'invalid' or wanting to directly talk about our trauma to be sure we are "traumatized enough"
I would gladly be friends with an endogenic system just existing and supporting us like a real human being rather than any anti-endo who feels enough hatred towards somebody's thoughts and personal experiences that they proudly label themselves as against an entire group of human beings without any nuance and dehumanizing them
That's really understandable. I have only met a few anti Endo's who do that, we are also in a disorder server full of anti Endo's who are just enjoying a place where we don't have to worry about not being enough, or not being traumatized enough.
But I don't blame you for that. I'm very proud of you for telling us.
You deserve a place to feel free and not have to try and prove you are as traumatized as someone else, or forced to talk about the said trauma that caused you to develop DID