#did part

[creatureghosts]

I don't know where my stance is on endos.

I don't have an issue with endos existing, like whatever do what you wanna do.

I do have an issue with endos claiming to have shared experiences with ppl who have DID/CDDs. Because it creates stigma and misinformation for that community.

DID and any form of CDD is inherently a disorder, that to most is disabling.

Endogenic systems are ...? Well I don't know I haven't gotten a straight answer out of any endos.

But I do know endogenic systems and DID systems don't need a shared space.

Endos need somewhere they can feel comfortable enough to be whoever they may be.

P/w DID need a space that nurtures healing growth and acceptance.

[bean-system]

HIII

I’m Arden 🎞️

My pronouns are xe/they/it

I don’t front a lot but I’m on pretty good terms with most of the system. I’m really anxious most of the time, but I also enjoy socializing when I feel comfortable. My favorite color is mint green or teal. I do t really know what my role in the system is, but that’s alright.

Nice to meet everyone, and ask questions about me if you want :P

[creatureghosts]

"dni if you let your littles/age regressed parts..." And then it's just a normal human behaviour???

In my experience my age regressed parts are just a part of me who is stuck in a trauma response.

They are me. I am 18, so they are 18.

Yes mentally they may present more child-like but there are adults that act childish, where do you draw the line?

At the end of the day they just aren't actual children.

This is my experience of having parts so please don't invalidate it - id love to hear about others experiences too...

[bean-system]

Being a girl in a majority masc AFAB system is so annoying, like I know you bitches are men but I want my partner to call me their girlfriend without you getting dysphoric and making me feel like shit via passive influence 😭 -Piper

[bean-system]

We weren’t on Tumblr in our early teens, but as a 15 year old headmate it feels strangely affirming :) -Lucy<3 (they/them)

[cdd-questions-and-confessions]

you got posted to the plural blocklist btw

Wait we did? Omg that's actually kinda funny

Definitely thank you for telling us, we will check it out!

[mothlicht]

why the fuck is my friend that obviously has a system from trauma, saying shit like "we should force plural everyone" and "delete the trauma with <substances>" (when in reality that is called fucking processing trauma, and does not delete it, and instead integrates it into memory)

argued vehemently with her last night over AAC to the point that she started crying about it for some reason and apologising but only after reading my AAC as I was typing and causing me to lose the entire ability to catch the thought I was scripting.

bruh.

[mothlicht]

tfw another part of your system has a flashback reliving it at least slightly? and learning about it via asking what happened to trigger the memory deletion & watching it get deleted

only for yourself to fake claim it having been a real memory/flashback/anything an hour? two hours? later? because there's no way someone would experience that and be emotionally numb

ah yes very healthy behaviour from me. at least i recognise it this time.

dont do this at home kids