Xander really needs to get over himself. He leaves his fiancée at the altar, makes her have to tell everyone that the marriage isn’t happening, keeps all the friends in the breakup, doesn’t make any reparations for her pain (only says sorry vaguely/I feel bad/should’ve told you sooner - as opposed to understanding the root of her hurt and making changes), wants to just rewind the clock and date again ignoring her real concerns about their relationship, and then sees by accident her hooking up with someone he doesn’t like weeks later - that he wasn’t supposed to know about, that was just solace - and he immediately storms off to KILL THE GUY WHO CAN’T FIGHT BACK? and then tells the woman he apparently still loves that she makes him sick for having done so? my god Xander - YOU are the evil, soulless thing.
