Hi, I hope you are having a good day <3 can I order something with Avdol and Caesar with a s / o who has a very strict family? even if you no longer live with them, they try to control every aspect of your life, from who they date to how they dress or their hairstyle
Of course! Enjoy your stay.
Avdol and Caesar with a S/O that has strict parents/family but no longer lives with them
Muhammad Avdol
Avdol wouldn't bother too much since it's your family, not his. He has nothing to do with it. Time passes, and he notices how hard it is for you to go out with him due to your family.
One way he would try to help would be by telling you to start making small advances, but you were quick to tell him that it wouldn't work.
He would still try to reason you, but as soon as you tell him that they've always been like this and that trying doesn't work, the only thing Avdol could give you is emotional support.
When you tell him about how strict and controlling your family is, he gets mad. You are a full-grown adult. Why would they be so strict and vigilant about you?
Muhammad's favorite types of dates are cafes since those aren't private places, it would be a bit easier for your parents to let you go, not only that, but he definitely wouldn't mind being presented as your friend since it would reduce your stress.
If you two were dating after you moved out, whenever a family member would call you in the middle of a private moment between you two, avdol would watch you answer it. After the call was over, he would just:
"mom?"
"yeah"
If they ever go to the extreme doing things like following you, Avdol will be your bodyguard.
If your family goes as far as asking your boyfriend about where you are, he wouldn't answer it, saying that you are a grown adult.
If you kept with the habits of saying where you are going, asking if it was fine, all that stuff, then he would calmly remind you that you are not living with your family anymore, it's alright.
Caesar A. Zepelli
If Caesar started dating you while you still lived with your family then he wouldn't bother much. Every family has its dynamics's and how your family worked was not of his business.
But after some time it starts to bother him how you always had to tell your parents where you were going, showing the clothes you were wearing, what you two were going to do or talk about, etc...
Caesar being that romantic bastard (affectionate), he was constantly asking you out on dates, which was such a stressful process for you, and that depended on your parents even if you were an adult.
"I don't know, I'll have to see with my parents"
He would ask why you had to ask your parents, considering you are an adult.
To prevent you from going through all the "I am going on a date" stress, he would give the idea for you two to go out on a secret date, you would lie about where you were going, in a situation your parents are more okay with it, and you two go out on a date.
If you two started dating after you moved out, Caesar would be very bothered when a family member of yours called you in the middle of a special moment just to ask where you were, with who, doing what, and that type of stuff.
Before you attend the call, caesar will just look at you like
"You know you don't have to, right?"
Like I said in the beginning, Caesar does not want to interrupt what happens between you and your family, since it's not of his business, but he is very much open to helping you whenever you need, or when a family member said something to you, or in a situation where you may be frightened by your family.
If you keep with these habits of telling where you are going, asking if what you are wearing is ok, and all those habits you had when you lived in your family, Caesar will always say that you don't have to tell or ask him those things.














