i love taking care. i love being motherly. i love seeing kids happy with me. but i also may need to take some time. to slip out of cg space some days. to take a long shower and breathe. it's okay. it's fine. we're humans. you're human. cgs, take your time when needed. we're not here to become the second bad parental figure and being mentally exhausted is not the right way to care. we should be fully stable and healthy before trying to take care of someone, so care for yourself. you're not being selfish. you're actually caring for your little & yourself. being 100% sure you'll handle everything with the bestest state of mind is the way. take your time, care for yourself, say out loud that you need a break before healing.
The rare CG mode is coming out tonight folks ... I don't feel comfortable actually having a little that I met online but IMAGINE. I have so many nicknames in my back pocket. I can sing to you in three languages. I'm the best cook I know. I'm really, really good at creating days centered around themed like "Paw Patrol" or "sea animals." I'm seriously snuggly.
I have a few friends that I know regress irl and the NEED to care for them is insane esp because I know they do it for sad reasons. But they're only like 2% involved with it so it would still be weird if I asked lol
If you're a kiddo who needs a hug from mama rn or you want to send in an ask for me to answer as a CG, all you gotta do is ask! <3
These two are always here to encourage and nurture you no matter your age! I had this idea a few months ago and seeing @/cgscomfycove make a similar post as to what I was going for inspired me to get it done !
I see these two more as space-beings than humans on Earth in a house that just so happen to like the stars but you can interperate them as either!
Some more details below:
For clarifications sake, the one on the left is named Cyrus and the one on the right is named Celimene
These two love doing mellow activities such as colouring, painting, reading, and the sort! Their hearts melt when presented with little creations from you.
They both play numerous musical instruments but they have their favourites, Celimene is known for her paino skills and Cyrus loves his double bass, they love playing for their little star and would be over the moon if they asked for music lessons. They both agree a toy piano would sound very sweet along with their grander istruments.
Celimene is phenominal at creating a nice atmosphere, she loves to find a cosy spot somewhere, fill it with pillows, cushions and blankets before turning on her aromatherapy defuser (or air humidifier/dehumidifier depending on her babys needs) and cracking open a good story book- although it isn't uncommon for Cyrus to join with three mugs of something warm.
If you like star-gazing they'll take you to do it often, all three of you pointing out different constelations and making up some of your own.
Cyrus loves hearing you explain things to him, he loves seeing your point of veiw and he finds the way you express yourself endearingly amusing but he never, ever belittles you.
¤Giving floods of notes to little blogs to make them feel special
¤Buying little toys and gear because they're super cute, then having it all unopened in a giant box
¤Befriending every little in sight and smothering them in advice because you want to at least have a positive influence in someone's life
¤Buying a huge stuffie to cuddle cause it's weird having your arms empty all the time
¤Feeling awkward in chat rooms because you wanna make friends but don't wanna seem like a creep
¤Sending anonymous compliments when a little seems sad
¤Struggling to navigate friendships with littles because you don't want them to rely on you in an unhealthy way but also you wanna be there for them whenever they need cause you wanna see them happy
