#changing mind

[andrew2luv]

One minute: Jeff is a middle aged man, cocky ass that I want to punch Next minute: Jeff is a cocky ass that I want to pounce and run my hands through his hair

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Changing Your Mind

You change your mind all the time. It's not that difficult to change your mind.

Think about the last time your mind has shifted. You thought long and hard about getting out of bed, figuring out what you are going to eat and spending hours one what to watch on which streaming service.

on a macro-level: the public opinion of things has changed drastically as well. though on a slower level as it requires everyone to get on board.

i.e. wearing a seatbelt. that sort of thing that is literally a law now was once a non-issue. ppl would ride in cars without a second thought of clicking that seatbelt but we all feel a bit antsy when we don't have it on us even on airplanes. (I always thought it funny that ppl think that airplane seatbelt will do anything. We are literally in a flying tube going 500+ miles an hour in the fucking sky.)

Ppl used to believe that talking about what you liked in bed wasn't smexy. Like getting to know your partner on a deeper more intimate way was supposed to be automatically downloaded by kissing or holding hands. no we are social creatures, we have language and the gift of being able to receive and give. after the flirting and playful banter and summoning up the courage to go on a date and look your crush in the eye we then fall short and not speak about the terribly bad things you wanna do to each other? like what das crazy fool. anyways, we now know that is false. discussing the things you like and want to do or explore is fun, we get to facilitate trust and connection with our partner when we communicate our desires.

So the next time you think that change isn't possible or real, think again. That's your mind changing again.

[harmonyshield]

Sem perceber eu me envolvi Por inteiro nesse amor. E esse amor sem perceber Me deixou na solidão. E a solidão quer machucar Meu pobre coração. Eu me envolvi sem perceber E agora meu amor!!!? Que eu me envolvi sem perceber... E agora meu amor!!!?

Cecéu Muniz - Sem perceber

Eu amo essa música <3

[anything-advice-blog]

Urgent.. I have a problem with constantly changing my mind all the time. Like.. my favourite actors for example. One minute it'll be one, and the next it'll be completely different, and it annoys me.. it happens a lot with almost everything, and I was just wondering if this is my OCD or my aspergers speaking? (I have both) :// thank you ~ isla

Hey Isia, 

I can’t tell you for sure if it’s OCD or your Asperger’s. I want to say it would probably lean more towards the Asperger’s side of this since but I’m not an expert on this subject. I highly advise you to talk to your psychologist about this and see if they could have a clearer answer for you. it could be neither to be honest. We constantly change our minds without the weight of a mental illness sticking to it. I mean if you decided today that this song was your favourite and then change your mind tomorrow, it’s annoying to not have a long lasting one, but it’s not necessary tied to a disorder. It could simply be that you don’t have one yet and you’re rotating through the songs that you find interesting and like a lot. If you really want to know I’d say talk to your doctor. But I think it may be best to challenge your mind and try to word it differently. Rather than saying someone is your favourite, you can say that you like this actor a lot. Because you may not necessarily have a favourite. You just have a lot of actors that you admire and it changes. 

Try and see if changing the word “favourite” would help with this particular situation. I don’t know what else you change your mind on but I’d say try and challenge it. Is it a choice between something that you just express an interest in? I change my favourite genre of music all the time. I used to change my favourite food all the time but I realised now that spaghetti has my heart and it didn’t come easily. So it could be that case. However, if you find that once you change your mind, you 10000% hate your previous choice, then perhaps it could be directly linked to your OCD or Aspergers. 

Always by your side,

Kelly

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[houseofgeekery]

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[iona-kali]

I believe we are crooked, you and I.  We are the unpredictable, forever changing kind. Always changing our mind. We must be the crooked kind. But that doesn’t matter, don’t you see?  That’s what makes the best of us, The magic and flaws of you and me. And.. To be real, yet crooked, is what I rather be.

@joannakeo