"If Denji was a girl, people would take his SA seriously"
I'm sorry, what alternate dimension do you live in where people take women's experiences of sexual violence seriously? What life did you live that you somehow managed to find chainsaw man without touching a single manga or anime? How did you manage to even draw this conclusion at all.
You do understand that the reason people don't take SA seriously is because it happens to women right? Sexual violence is very feminized in society as is seen as a natural consequence of being a woman, so no people wouldn't care more if Denji was a woman, they would care even less and even blame her.
The reason people don't care about Denji's abuse is not because he is a man, it's because he is a disenfranchised man. The reality is that the reason people don't care about female victims of sexual violence is because it is seen as apart of having a marginalized identity, in this case being a woman. If you are some who lacks social power in any meaningful way, your body is the property of your superior and anything that they do to you is justified and a necessity for maintaining the system. Denji being a minor, mentally ill, poor and a hybrid (a csm unique identity) strips him of any sort power and validates any abuse he experiences.
The only reason people end up feeling outraged is because they see SA as a solely gendered experience and inherently sexual and not an assertion of power and dominance. So no Denji's victimhood is not overlooked because he is a man, it's because his other marginalized identities prevent him from accessing the social power associated with being a man to the point that women are able to exert power over him.
Furthermore, the reason why certain fans just flat out ignore the abuse and go as far as romanticizing the abuse is because shounen manga relies on romanticizing abuse and marginalization. so many shounen stories frame marginalization as an independent failure and that the masculine thing to do is brute force your way out of it and reclaim your power as a man. In most cases it focuses on class and fictional structures but in chainsaw man it uses real marginal identities and refuses to just let Denji will his way out of it. Because Fujimoto refused to treat social inequality as personal failure, Denji will continue to suffer because marginalization is not an independent choice.
Then there are the people that solely view Denji as a man and therefore believes he intrinsically holds all the power and therefore whatever happens is his doing because that is a fundamental quality of shounen. Your protagonist is not a victim, just a man going through hardship to make himself strong by the end. It is his story, therefore whatever happens is what he wanted and if he didn't want that to happen then he would do something about it. And I'm not even going to touch rape and sv against female characters today.
Also, I regularly see people complaining about his lack of growth but how can he grow when his situation has not changed. his material conditions are the same as they were when makima found him. was he supposed to manifest boundaries out of thin air?
Rape and sexual violence is not about gender or sexuality, it is about power. It is how you establish and affirm your position within a society. Denji's constant experience of sexual (and of other forms) violence is not overlooked because he is a man, it's overlooked because people subconsciously believes he deserves it because his multiple marginal identities frames him as a failure of a man. You are not doing Denji a favour by centering his gender in this conversation when there are actual forces working against him.












