#cis transmed

[marxcult]

cis transmeds be like "i experimented with my gender for a bit and i turned out to be cis so now im blaming every single tucute on earth for this incredibly traumatic time in my life in which literally nothing went down and i didn't even get to the point of cutting my hair"

[tiredfemininity]

cis truscum is just a fancy term for transphobe lol

Cis truscum are an oxymoron as truscum means True Transgender Scum. Cis transmedicalists, however, are spreading the science-based information about the community and helping educate those who were exposed to things like mogai.

[uwuisatucoochieslur]

Yall transmeds are so fucking cute and deserve all the love in the world

[enbycourse]

If you’re a cisgender transmed please know that I love you. Thank you for being allies.

[nondysphoric-enby]

"We just don't want cis people in our community! You're cis!"

Trumeds like to say, that is until a cis "trans ally" agrees with them, then suddenly cis people are allowed and encouraged by them to gatekeep the community and participate in it.

Annoying.

But anyways, I do still keep the link of sources in my bio-

Linktree. Make your link do more.

[armve1ns]

Seeing a lot of people bashing cis transmeds

Thought I'd share my brief story of an encounter with one of these folks in real life.

A cis transmed helped me through my questioning phase, while at the same time respecting any weird phases I went through. She challenged my beliefs and what I said respectfully, but didn't push.

Ex.: one time I said, jokingly "gender is a social construct" (it was a weird time, okay?) and she responded "if gender was socially constructed, why do people transition?" That made me pause and think. Why was I (socially, at the time) transitioning if gender was fake?

She was, and still is, a true ally! Cis transmeds rock!

[bees-and-transrights]

cis transmeds are gross and you cant change my mind

[trans-trending]

How to actually be a cis ally;

Standing up for trans people faced with transphobia regardless of if you personally know or like them

Correcting or speaking up against transphobia from friends, family members and others even if no trans people are present

Respecting trans people's pronouns, name and gender unconditionally

Donating time or money to trans specific charities or helping individual trans people who need it

Making the improvement of trans rights a focus politically, joining campaigns or movements to improve trans healthcare, to make transitioning more accessible, etc

Understanding that it is not your place to make judgements on who you think is and isn't trans regardless of your trans partner/friend/sibling/etc saying it's ok

Understanding that you don't have to understand everything about a trans persons struggles, or how they describe or interact with gender or how they present themselves to respect them

Understanding that it is not your place to decide who, when and how people can transition

How not to be a cis ally;

Questioning people, especially strangers, into divulging their personal mental health status before you accept that they're trans

Only respecting certain pronouns and genders

Only respecting trans people that are gender conforming in their presentation or only respecting those who "pass"

Spreading the ideas that some trans people are fakes

Only helping trans people you like or only standing up when trans people are present

Making offensive jokes (e.g. attack helicopter) regardless of if your trans partnet/friend/etc said you could

Involving yourself in intracommunity matters (I.e. being a cis transmed or cis "tucute") regardless of if a trans partner/friend/sibling/etc said you could

Saying people should only transition in certain circumstances or in certain ways (e.g. only if they're over x years old)

Hope that clears it up for some of you!!!