#confused queer

[deviousdyke]

𝒂𝒏 𝒆𝒙𝒉𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒍𝒆𝒔𝒃𝒊𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒔 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒚 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒗𝒐𝒊𝒅

[thylocalbard]

Chat is obsessively headcanoning every character I relate to as a gay transmasc a sign of being a gay transmasc.

[kindly-gourd]

As a panromantic, asexual enby I find it extremely difficult to discern whether I am romantically and/or aesthetically attracted to a person/character or if I want to *be* that character

[timefighter]

I recently came to realize that I'm nonbinary (afab) and I have some thoughts about my feeling towards being a 'woman' vs being enby.

It's really strange because I feel like such a large part of my identity has been associated with being a feminist and even though I know that my gender doesn't change that, it's still very complicated for me. I feel like I'm not allowed to relate to issues that directly affect women, even though I am still affected by those very same issues. I want to read authors like Simone de Beuvoir and Sylvia Plath, but I fear that my interest in the issues they discuss somehow invalidates my gender. I have been so intertwined with these issues, that it feels like if I come out, I will have to give all of that up.

I'm also worried that reading and doing stuff like that is more feminine in a way that feels uncomfortable to me now. I dont want people to assume my gender based solely on what media I consume or the things I'm passionate about. I still am angry about the injustices that women face, but I feel as if I cant be as angry as I was without sacrificing a part of myself.

[hotpants83-onice]

I have a question,

To all the LGBTQ+ peeps, do you ever see someone you're attracted to of the same sex and have the thought process like, "dang! Their face shape is perfect, it would balance out mine and our children would have perfectly shaped faces!!!!" And then you have to remind yourself,

THAT'S NOT HOW BIOLOGY WORKS. ??????????

[our-blood-is-our-ink]

Alright, I need some advice folks. Is it a thing for someone to be attracted to almost exclusively women (I'm a female myself) but occasionally (read maybe - maybe - once every year and a half) see a really hot dude and be attracted to them? And then NB/transfluid etc. are fair game for attraction as well? Am I pan? Is there another term? Because what the FUCK kind of flag should be hiding in my closet??

[traumatized-enough]

Reblog if you're up for a conversation about spirituality

I could use some guidance/someone to talk things through with. Thanks!!