#afab nb

[lilacsmothership]

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[bxbblegxmbby]

I just had seeeeeex and it feels so good

[whereserpentswalk]

Transandrophobia goes beyond just being dismissive of trans men, it's this culture within the queer community where transmasc and afab enby experiences and culture are regularly hated and dismissed by the rest of the community. As well as the way any hint of female sex on someone who isn't a woman is hated. Not to mention the insane amount of transphobia + homophobia trans mlm face within the queer community.

Like just look at how every fandom (lemon demon, fnaf, TallyHall, Undertale, backrooms, etc.) gets hated and mocked by the internet the momment the fandom becomes majority afab trans people. I've seen this happen in real time, where fandoms go from being seen as cool and interesting, to being dismissed as weird and cringe, the momment thos shift happens.

Or the way transmasc and afab enby bodies are treated. The way transmascs are bullied for not having body types considered masculine. The searing hatred most people here seem to have for any afab trans person who isn't on T. The way passing is celebrated as a moral good. The way twink has been a polite way for some people to call trans men girls.

Transmascs and afab enbies deserve love and kindness. And they also deserve human respect. Please if your an afab trans person reading this: I love you, I respect you, you deserve to be respected, and treated as an adult able to make your own decisions, you deserve to have your body treated with respect regardless of appearance and for people to be normal about it.

[your-queer-dad]

No sir I'm not female. The F on my birth certifcate stands for fuck.

[augmentedpolls]

Transmascs, do you wear a binder?

yes

no, bc I’ve had top surgery

no, but I wish I could (ex can’t due to transphobic parents)

no, bc of a medical condition/sensory issues

no, I just don’t want to

other

results

Voting ended onNov 19, 2024

[chestersbraincell]

How the AFAB trans-in-denial experience went like for me:

„Ofc I’d never want to cut my long beautiful hair!!! It’s the only thing feminine pretty about me! *one mental breakdown hair cut later* Wow…why does this so good? Like why am I so giddy about this? Ahaha Surely because it was always such a bother to style it, right? It’s gonna be so easy now! Yeah! Definitely no other reason why this just feels like me , ahaha. *experiencing gender euphoria for the first time and doesnt even know it*”

„I would rather die than experience another period, but pfft ALL the girls feel this way right? Im so feminist for never wanting kids ahaha. Girl boss am I right??”

„I’m so lucky that I’m so curvy, so many of my girl friends probably wish they were more curvy, I would TOTALLY switch body types with them for no other reason than that I wish them the best! I totally don’t envy their ability to pass as boy’s/non-binary if they tried! Not at all! Would switch body types purely out of my good will is all! They’re just a bother when exercising, so I’d probably feel better without them too; in a totally cis way ofc!!!”

„…why does it lowkey feel so fun to be mistaken as a boy/enby online-„

(Just want to reiterate that none of these experiences make you inherently trans/genderqueer! These are just my personal moments of pure denial in retrospect!)

[anotherqueersnailowner]

One time I was playing capture the flag with a bunch of kids at this like play group my Lil sister goes to every week and we were using nerf guns and in between rounds this little kid (like 4-8 idfk) just looked at me then and announced to everyone "his aim SUCKS" which, yeah, was rude but it he used my correct pronouns so I call that a win. sometimes insults are gender-affirming and that's honestly that's valid

[thearcananerd]

Alright I’m so sick of the fact that AFAB people don’t understand their own reproductive system. I have several issues with my own so for my fellow young AFABs:

What is and is not normal:

Normal:

Irregular or unexpected periods: when you first start having your period they typically won’t be regular and you may even have spotting (bleeding between periods) sometimes as an adult

Having an increased amount of discharge before periods: you will typically have discharge when ovulating and it may even happen more often and more heavily in the days proceeding your period. This is in fact normal and you can help protect clothes and underwear by using panty liners

Pain or discomfort during your period IN MODERATION (more later): of course you will have cramps during your periods and of course it’s not going to be easy. However you should definitely learn about pressure points to help with abdominal pain as well as using heat packs and learning what works best for YOU.

Not normal(please keep in mind that this is if these things happen consistently):

Excessive pain/soreness: If you have pain all throughout your period that does not stop or you have pain during intercourse when not on your period talk to your ob/gyn and if your doctor tells you that it’s normal/something you need to get used to, or dismisses it that IS NOT the doctor you need or want.

HEAVY periods: if you are changing pads meant for heavy flow every four-six hours I’m begging you to talk to your doctor, it is not normal or safe to be losing that much blood on a regular basis

(There is more I can put here but I can put them on as I remember)

IUDs:

IUDs are intrauterine devices that look like little plastic Ts. These are a form of contraceptive that are also used to treat things like Endometriosis (a disorder when tissues from your uterine lining sits on the outside of your uterus and ovaries, though it can move to other places in the body). If you have an IUD you or your partner may be able to feel string coming from your cervix out into the vaginal canal. This is normal. However if you feel the plastic connected to this string call your doctor, your IUD may be leaving your uterus and that is not a fun experience.(it’s happened to me.) When your doctor puts in your IUD they will open to your cervix (this does actually hurt) to insert it. Once the IUD is in your uterus you may have irregular periods as the IUD takes a while to work. (I had a 208 day cycle when I first got mine)

PLEASE KEEP IN MIND I AM NOT A DOCTOR THIS IS ALL MY RESEARCH AND EXPERIENCE.

tell me if there is more you’d like to know more about, I will help as best as I can