#correct gendering

[thecosmicmasculine]

Got called sir at work today!! 😁🏳️‍⚧️ yay!!

[transmascpolls]

Transmascs: have you personally been expected by others to be grateful or uncaring of insults as long as you’re being correctly gendered?

Yes, I’ve been expected to be grateful/happy for insults with correct gendering

Yes, I’ve been expected to be neutral about insults with correct gendering

Yes, all of the above at different times when insulted as the correct gender

No, never been expected to be positive/neutral for a correctly gendered insult

Unsure / I struggle too much too understand social expectations to notice

Other answer from the above options

See results / not transmasc

Voting ended onOct 31, 2025

[yeeiguess]

Me : all this makeup is going to be annoying to take off

My mom, gendering me correctly without hesitation : Yes but you’re handsome like that

My soul : !!!!! 💖💞❤️💛💘💖💝

[problemassonmasculinos]

I’ve been getting gendered correctly way more often lately. It’s mostly either people who I’d expect to be trans-friendly and people who want to get on my good side (salespeople, people asking for change on the street, etc.), but it’s still really nice. I think I’ve been getting a lot better at makeup and putting together outfits that work together.

In other news, I’m probably starting on hormones in the next few months - once I have a consistent source of income (I just started at two new jobs on top of the guitar lessons I’d been giving) I should be able to afford to pay for appointments and prescriptions. So things are looking up, even if they suck for now.

[transmascpolls]

Transmascs: do you have a favorite / one of favorites compliment?

Handsome

Pretty

Strong

Brave

Charismatic

Intelligent

Quick

Caring

Kind

Anything paired with explicit correct gendering

No or other(s) (please tell us in the notes!)

Not Transmasc / See Results

Voting ended onJan 26, 2025

[skystarstudios]

I GOT CALLED “HE” IN PUBLIC LET’S FUCKING GO!!!!

[kittenquasar]

Eeeeee he didn't look directly at me but a Walmart employee just called me miss heheheb iv never been called miss before! I'm almost 30 and I got called miss. I love hrt so much omggg

[justletmeon12]

I still get a lot of gender euphoria from when my parents get it right, because even though they've been doing so consistently for a while, I still don't quite expect it.

My dad was making fun of my advice for his next PCP appointment and loudly joked, "So, I'll just tell him that my son said it isn't a problem, and then he'll tell me it's East Himalayan Mosquito Flu and I'm going to die!"

And it was the nicest thing he's ever said.