Hi Mr. Bossman!
TMA has made me so much happier in so many ways since I started listening to it, and has quite possibly altered my brain chemistry and the trajectory of my life (not what I was expecting when I started listening to the funky horror fiction podcast my roommate recommended to me, but here we are), so I wanted to extend a thanks to you and everyone else who worked on the show for creating such a phenomenal work.
One of the things I loved most about listening was how much fun everyone was having and how close you all seemed in bonus content/qnas/etc.. Creative work, especially writing, has always been very solitary for me, and though that's nice at times! it can be disheartening, too.
I'm starting at university in the fall, and I'm really hoping to change that, so... Any advice on making friends/building community/starting collaborative projects when it comes to creative work?
Thank you again!! and have a wonderful rest of your day :D
Hey, Lovely to hear and I am happy to be your well meaning but slightly out of touch uncle for the topic. Advice for making a creative community at University: 1) Buy a door stop. If you are staying on campus prop your door open the day you move in. People will wander corridors of closed fire doors looking to meet people. Yours will be the open door and you can immediately turn your room into a social hub/ point of reference. 2) Join every society that even vaguely tickles your interest (unless they expect major fees/dues up front in which case be more reserved). Attend them all at first then let them atrophy naturally. The stuff you actually want to do will rise to the top and the rest will drop off. You'll be left with a broader palette of contacts and interests. 3) Befriend the STEM nerds. Every gang of engineers is looking for a fun humanities pet and most of those groups will have at least one person who secretly wishes they were doing something creative. That will be your go-to tech person in the future, I guarantee it. 4) Do a sport but don't let it consume your time. Not just good for your health, it will pair you with people you wouldn't normally meet and give a schema of shared interest to make convo easier. This is where you are most likely to meet your wild-card contact (i.e. someone you couldn't ever plan to meet who turns out to be essential due to their connections or whatever.) 5) Learn hard skills. Lighting, sound, electronics etc. This is the easiest time you have to get these skills and having them immediately makes you more resilient as a creator both financially and in terms of insight moving forwards. 6) Accept as much useful responsibility as you can easily handle. i.e. being a visual artist who is secretary of the Art Club = useful and helpful. Being a visual artist who is a treasurer for the cocktail society = less so. Some responsibility is important but remember there is an opportunity cost. Every position of responsibility you take precludes you from another. So choose them don't just drift into them. Bonus: Don't shave your head for a performance role 2 weeks into semester. No-one will recognise you and everyone will avoid you. TRUST ME. As always, your mileage may vary. I am a neurospicy bunny who made a personal study of how to socialise like a human, I am NOT an expert, guru or trained proffesional in this field.












