#definitely better

[switchysister]

I’ve been promised a minute of birthday tickles per year of age, every year for the rest of my life…

[i-miss-my-90gb]

Anyways sorry abt the emo posts earlier were over it now

[beetender]

uhh ive grown up a lot in nearly 3 years

[cameforstuff]

Ya know for all my anxiety, I'm kinda cool. Hell yeah I quit my job and moved several states to go to college and achieve my dreams.

[britishhiphop]

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[andithewaterbottle]

I haven’t drawn like at all this year and tell me why the medium that got me back into it was Roblox spray paint 😭😭

save me why do I love it

[melody-of-scream]

I've been feeling like I'm forgotten about a lot, by my friends irl and here. I have this one friend I've helped so much, talking with her about her friends, her family, her mental illness, etc. I think I've been giving for so long and all she does is take. If I'm having mental health problems it's brushed off, sometimes she even says I'm doing it because she's mentally unwell. She forgets about me when she talks about her friends even though I've been with her through it all since the beginning

I’m sorry to hear that you feel like this anon. Because I know how it feels like you are forgotten… it is one of my fears actually. And I’m sorry you have to go through the pain.

It really does sound like an inbalance in your friendship. After all you very likely don’t feel like you give so much and she only takes for nothing.

And brushing off your mental health problems as being connected to her own is a s***ty move to say the least. It could be part of the reason because a lot of negativity can influence all of us in the long run. But that doesn’t invalidate your mental health trouble and problems.

Do you still talk a lot? It sounds like you still have a lot of contact. And if she forgets about you when talking about her friends… she is definitely not a good friend to say the least.

I have heard about friendships like that a lot lately and the moment a friendship puts you through ongoing pain and trouble. Something is amiss, not healthy and it often is not worth it.

People usually struggle a lot when I say this. But I have made the experience that while ending a friendship hurts a lot. It can be healing. And it’s never “ending up alone for good”. There will always eventually be new people who you get along with better, who treat you better and value you like you deserve it.

However I understand if you want to hold onto this friendship after all.

But if you plan to do this you should tell your friend how you feel. Try to stay calm but directly say that it hurts you. A friend wants you to be well too and if she brushes your concerns off… that is not a good sign.

Stay strong anon. The world needs people who are willing to give. But they definitely deserve to get something back as well. And I hope you soon will feel appreciated again or find people who do appreciate you the way you deserve it. 

I’m with you anon. Life sometimes robs us of our positivity. But please don’t succumb to it love. I’m hear to listen to you but only you can make a decision. Either way I hope you are not hurt any further!

[potatobam]

you know what? I think I’d finally be at peace if I get that cashier job

I can finally draw again w/o worrying about finding jobs and most importantly, it’s going to help my mom calm too bc we’d finally have income (even if it’s small)